I have passions for so many things in my life but i got no idea of what might be good for me?

like i wanna be famous- say, next Marilyn Manson or Tiger Woods...not just famous for being famous but really accomplish something like finding a cure for AIDS etc...like i just already proven to myself that i can do whatever i want to do- only commitment, patience and hard work are needed along the way- which are my forte-)) not that i am bosting or something...but i got a big family that i should support- my parents, my siblings.. i am 21 and the oldest so i am kind of bound so i can forget about my dreams...but on the other hand i do feel a great reponsiblity for those who i love...so it is tearing me apart..i don`t know which way to go...they never seem to meet each other...it is not only the matter of" should i go help my family first or go for my career first and feel more confident", but "should i choose becoming a businessman or a bass guitar player or should i just go find a right guy and dissapear with him to the end of the world"

i belive there must be someone who went through this sort of dilemma..what was your experience, please share...

and please pardon my english!

lol I'm in the same boat as you its just so appealing to be selfish and follow your own dreams but when you have a family you want to take care of its easy to get stuck in a cubicle the good thing is that your young and hopefully you don't have kids I think it would be a good idea to try out many different kinds of jobs you can volunteer at places you are interested in.. that way you can see if its really something you want to do and also its a great way to network

Well first I think you should set more realistic goals and take things one step at a time! People don't just become famous overnight by setting a goal of becoming famous...fame usually occurs as a side effect of a persons hard work, determination and accomplishments in their field of work.