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Violent threat, shall I take it likely?!?


this is not intended as a joke either, can I show the police this text message. { **** you and if you see a car speeding towards you you might want to move it wont be me though}

I meet this girl who was on METH, threw her life away on it, and it made me upset to know the potential she had. After leaving her junkie bf of 3 years, she couldnt go back to her family because she made the choice of drugs over them. I offered her to stay at my apt since I had an extra sunroom. We'd been working together for 9 months by that time, so she was no stranger. I helped her off drugs for 4 months, and during that time she was SANE. I helped her open a bank account to save money, get a cell phone, get clothes other than the 2 outfits she owned, and apply for financhial aid for school. She moved back home. I thought she wanted more out of life... you know be where a 20 year old should've been... but she slowly started getting back into bad habits from what I believe and acts totally different now.

After moving back home and BEING HEALTHY again, she and I stopped talking as much. Our schedules were just off, she slept all day and worked at night. I was busy with work and school. She started going out more with new friends, blowing money on alcohol and at clubs, etc etc. I think she fell back into those bad habits because she blows my phone up at 2-5am in the morning a lot. Aren't meth users usually awake at that time?!?! She straight up harasses me, VERY IMMATURE! Calls all the time but wont speak when I answer. Texts me obscene messages. I've asked her to leave me alone a handful of times. She thinks Im an ASSHOLE because I wanted more out of her... and she claims that as controlling. So why is she still messing with me? Why is she threatening to get somebody to hit me with a car?!?! Should I tell the fuzz?

No good deed goes unpunished.

Let me just say that was nice of you to take her in like that. She really did have a chance but she blew it off to throw it away again. Was it her that sent the message? I'd show it to police and get her in rehab for her own good. Best thing you can do in this situation.

My husband dealt with a very similar situation with one of his friends a few years back. She too reverted back into old ways.
The police honestly wont' do much over that text - it's a shame, but they won't. (been there with a neighbor!)
All you can do is keep away.
You suond like you did such a wonderful thing for her, opening your heart and your home to her, you did your best and everything you could do.
If she truely doesn't want to change, she won't and you sadly can't make her.
If she comes near you in a very threatening manner then call the police, but over a nasty text like that, they won't do much if anything.
I'm sorry, i hope things look up for you and her!

Take it seriously. Even though, you helped her physically, you CANNOT change her heart. There is something obviously wrong with her spirit, mind, heart, whatever that is driving her to do what she does. With that in mind, watch yourself, not be overly fearful, but WATCHFUL and honestly, if you still insist on helping her, seek professional advice. Meth users can become very volatile over the slightest movement or loud voice.

I hope you learned a good lesson. Forget her.

you cant get her off the dope. she has to do it herself for herself.

Trying to reason with someone who uses narcotics that are known to make a person irrational isn't going to work. Kudos to you, for caring about another human soul the way you have for hers. But if she is going to continue to use, then you need to kep a safe distance. I would at least make the police aware of the issue, show them the text, and to be honest, they may not do anything about it, but will keep it on record, in case she starts doing this routinely....Something else; sometimes, we lash out at people we care about the most because we have not done the very best we could to improve ourselves, or our situation. She may be dealing with a great deal of guilt, because she KNOWS she fell back into the same habits and she is dissapointed in herself as well, but you are an external target (much easier to attack than one's self, I assure you) . So instead of wanting to deal with her issues right now, she is using anger at you to cope with her pain. And she is in pain, I assure you; my brother has had a 17 year battle with crack cocaine, and it is still going. You cannot reason with them until they can do for THEMSELVES. They need to find their own way; if you help them do it all, they will never get anything done on their own; that includes their recovery, so just distance yourself from her, care about her from afar and let her finally help herself, when she's ready. Blessings; you deserve them.

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