Can my partner stop his sons mum from seeing him?

My step sons mother took drugs throughout her pregnancy which resulted in this gorgeous boy been disabled.He is seven and still cant talk or do things with his left arm easily.Apart from that he is like any other cheeky little boy, but his lame exuse for a mother is constantly messing around with his visits.He's been 2 court 4 times,twice about her not keepin up 2 the arranged visits and hes had 2 tell her 2 go back 2 court again recently because she started 2 mess around again.My partner used 2 get legal aid before i moved in with him so he used be able 2 get a decent solcitor to help him,but since im working he cant apply 4 it no more.Meanwhile this cow cant decide when she wants to see her own son and can get legal aid even though its because of her that their in court in the first place.so now were stuck with going 2 court (WHEN she eventually decides 2 take us) and not knowing what we can do and without the help of a solicitor!Call this justice!Please help!

i feel for you both what a situation to be in your husband has nothing to worry about as far as the court is concered . if you keep a diary of everything that is happening on adaily basis with this so called mother, it will all be taken into consideration when it does go to court and hopefully she will mess up plenty more times to come, if you make a plee that she is upsetting the child and his is in a state for a long time after seeing her this should all count.. i only wish you luck athough i do think you have a great lot better chance than this women does

sounds to me like your partner needs to get a job so he can afford an attorney and thank his lucky stars everyday that she didn't get custody of the child. He has to allow her visitation if its court ordered however he can ask for supervised visitation that way when she doesn't show up he can go back to court and prove she isn't showing up for her visits otherwise she can just say he is denying her access to the child.

Hi there, what a horrible situation for you all, sadly the mind of the decision makers is that "any" parental contact is good contact, this is done with the best will in the world but causes frustration. Have you asked your step-son how he feels? After 10 years of total neglect my son finally met his dad for the first time since he was a baby. He wrote to my son on occasion (he lives abroad) and always cited "no money" as his main reason to not even call my son. My son would write and not receive an answer for up to a year and at one point I had to bring my son to a councellor as I was so concerned about him. Last month he told me that his greatest wish was to meet his dad so I ended up bringing him to his dad.I felt sad for my son when he seen his (poor) dads mansion, he has a great job, snazzy cars, holiday home boat you name it, but even knowing that his dad treated him badly he said nothing and had a great week with him. My point is that even though we resent these parents who treat the kids we love very badly, the kids still need them, and more importantly still want them, I went through hell watching my son for all this time but I know that my son is aware of the lies and I know that his dad is ashamed. I hope this helps and wish you luck.