Regarding My Son?

My 18 year old son unfortunately is not working at the moment and my wife and I (Who both work full time) are starting to lose patience with him. I am unsure of what he can do to be able to get work or benefits as I myself have worked full time from the age of 15 and have never been unemployed.

Thought my son suffers from kidney problems (Two operations in the past year) and is registered as deaf and wears two hearing aids I still feel he should be working at his age not sitting around all day. Can you give any information as to what benefits he or my wife and I can claim for him until he at leasts finds work as we're currently paying for him out of our own wages.

I truly appreciate your help
Thankyou
John

I would speak to your son's doctor and see if he feels that your son would be eligible for Social Security Disability. The process is lengthy, and many people are denied on their first application but it seem to me that financially it would be worth the effort. If this is not possible, you could tell him to enroll in a work outreach program that helps people with mild disabilities enter the workforce. Please don't misunderstand, I do not believe that you son's issues are handicaps but sometimes people in general have a hard time reaching out and agencies like this make it easier to be accepted into the workforce. In the town I live in, there are many businesses that hire candidates just like your son. They pay them a good salary and they get tax credits too.

The local UPS store has 2 deaf shipping agents, we have a bulk mailing company that has a deaf man working the machines...they are pretty loud, so it is a perfect fit. I even know of an Olive Garden restaurant that hires legally blind students to roll all of the silverware into the napkins.

So, not all of these are great jobs but my point is that there are agencies out there that will fit your son into a job that he can do and he may even enjoy without the fear of rejection that he may be dealing with.

You might also try to explain to him that his choice not to work is effecting you and your wife in a negative way. Tell him that you love him but that since he is an adult he needs to try to contribute to his needs and care. Tell him that you value a person with a good work ethic and that you expect him to be a participant in his own life. Build his confidence and then help him succeed.

If all else fails, you could try to get a wefare stipend for him, but I would encourage him to work. It sounds like that resolution would make your whole family happiest.

I wish you luck.

Best go and see your local Citizens Advice Bureau - they are very clued up on benefit claims

well can't he get diability at his age being deaf and eveything if I were you I would check into it

he probably just feels isolated and alone with everything thats happened to hime try to organise something that will make hime see why he is in the wrong by being lazy. make sure that he finds a mate thats gone through similar stuff as him and that that freind has a job to make him see fit.

you can go to social security office and file for disability for him you may not get it the first time but do it a second time and you will get it and he could be recieving money each month for him and it could help

I would say go to the cab or go to directgov.org normally you will find some info or even the department of work and pensions

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Check with your local Job and Family Services office as there very well may be some Social Security Income or disability insurance assistance he is eligible for. Also check with your local Mental Retardation and Developmental Disabilities office - as they can often help persons with even the slightest handicapped (his deafness) find employement.

Have you tried to get him some help through the social security office........ sometimes they can point you in other directions......... as for work, the local Job service?........ Your local Welfare office?......... I know, people cringe at the word welfare........... however, they are there for people who really need help.

you should be able to get job seekers for him, even try to get incapacity if he is not ready for work yet.. take him to the local connections service of the job centre and get him registered for life skills or something like that.. college course even...
your local dhss will help with any benefits.. my son is 18 he works but his girlfriend doesnt but she has had to sign for job seekers

He might be entitled to Disability Living Allowance you can get advice from http://www.disabilityalliance.org/ but. as you say, he really needs to get out of the house and do something. Make him an appointment with the local Job Centre Disability Officer, and try to go with him so they don't fob him off. They can advise on training and work related matters

also see this page http://www.rnid.org.uk/information_resou...

Pray for your son! He must work ... try to find something in an association that is somewhere around! Do not stop praying for him, he needs a lot of your attention!

Contact your Jobcentre Plus office or Jobcentre and ask to make an appointment with the Disability Employment Adviser (DEA). The DEA can discuss his employment situation with him and agree the most appropriate type of support to assist him into employment.

Try entitledto.com

Haven't any idea of where it is in the world that you live. In Canada though your son would be eligible for some form of pension benefits as he has many obsticles that he has to overcome. There may be training programs available also where you live where they would train your son for a career and pay him as he learns. You could certainly call Social Services and see what is available in your area. Sad fact is that there are usually many opportunities available to assist people with disabilities but most of the time you have to hunt them down as they are not advertised or widely known to the general public. Also speaking with your family doctor may be helpful also as he may be able to direct you to the proper authorities to help. Best of luck to you son and your family.

If he has left scholl the he should be signing on and claiming JSA. Tell him what I told my son - go and sign on or you have 1 week to move out. Although your son is deaf there are still plenty of jobs he coule do. e.g. He can train as a teacher of the deaf if he wanted to and he has A levels to get him to uni.

go to your citizens advice bureau or your local one stop they will tell u everything u need to know