Is that my period coming or not?

Im currently 9weeks late for my period and I only will be able to go to the doctor in 3weeks time due to sorting out medical aid issues and today I have noticed a tiny amount of blood when I wiped (sorry TMI) so I have funny cramp in my tummy but they are unusual not like my normal period cramp. Still have sensitive breasts throughout from last month..so does it indicate that my period is nearly due? If i don't have by tom,should i go to my doctor immediately?
thanks for the help...btw no other preg symptoms apart from those above and sore hips pain.

Im 19 and ttc#1, engaged with my fiance :-)

Sorry forgot to add this too..yes i took 3 HPT's but they are all negative and had blood test in 5th week, still negative. Im miserable now cos the pain in my right hip is painful..

Have you taken a home pregnancy test?

If you're already that late for AF, then go take a pregnancy test. You can find them for $5 or $6. It will at least put your mind at ease.

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Having a regular menstrual cycle is usually a sign of good health. When you have a late period or missed period it could be a sign that something is up. There are many different reasons for late periods but if the problem continues for more than one menstrual cycle, make an appointment with your doctor to discuss the issue.

Does a Late Menstrual Period Mean I Am Pregnant?
One of the first signs of pregnancy is a late period. But missed periods do not necessarily mean that you are pregnant. If you鈥檙e sexually active and have missed a period, then it is worthwhile to take a pregnancy test. You may still want to take a pregnancy test even if you have been using contraception. Since birth control can fail, taking a pregnancy test will allow you to rule out one of the possible causes of missed periods. Your local pregnancy center can provide a test for free.

If you have a late period and a negative pregnancy test, then consider whether or not you鈥檝e recently been sick, gained or lost a significant amount of weight, have been under excessive stress or have taken any new medications. All of these things can affect your menstrual cycle and cause you to have irregular periods. Additionally, certain types of birth control, including the birth control pill, Depo-Provera and Norplant, can cause you to have menstrual cycles disturbances.

I Have My Period鈥 Think
Sometimes, you may have your period but, instead of your usual menstrual flow and period length, this time around your period is shorter and lighter. In some cases, it could be a sign that you didn鈥檛 ovulate during the month. If the problem continues, you should probably make an appointment with your health care provider. A lighter, shorter period is also a common side effect of the birth control pill.

Women who are sexually active may want to take a pregnancy test if their lighter period appears to be pink or brown in color. What you鈥檙e seeing may actually be implantation bleeding and is an early sign of pregnancy. However, if this bleeding is also accompanied by a sharp pain in your lower abdominal, then make an appointment with your health care provider right away; you could be having an ectopic pregnancy.

My Period Won鈥檛 End!
Maybe a late menstrual period isn鈥檛 your problem but a heavier and longer period is. One possible explanation is uterine fibroids. Although these benign uterine tumors won鈥檛 hurt you, they do need to be investigated by a doctor. In some cases, they can grow to be extremely large and impair your fertility. However, if you鈥檙e experiencing severe cramps and are noticing a number of clots in your blood, then you may be having a miscarriage. This warrants an immediate appointment with your health care provider.

IUD users may have longer periods due to the IUD irritating the uterine wall. Longer and/or heavier periods can be side effects of the mini-pill, Depo-Provera and Norplant. If your periods have become especially heavy or long, talk with your doctor about changing your birth control.

My Period Isn鈥檛 Late 鈥?It鈥檚 Early!
Sometimes during your menstrual cycle you鈥檒l notice a little bit of blood on your panties or when you wipe. This is known as spotting and can be a sign of an infection, a cyst or a polyp in your vagina, cervix or uterus and should be investigated by a doctor. However, if you鈥檝e been under a lot of pressure lately, you may have a bit spotting because of the extra stress.

Spotting is also a very common side effect during the first few months of using the birth control pill. If you鈥檝e been using the Pill for a while, though, then you may notice some bleeding between periods when you鈥檝e forgotten to take your pill or you took it a bit later than usual. Women who use an IUD, though, should make an appointment with their health care provider as spotting may be a sign of inflammation or infection.

Pregnancy
It is also normal for women who are in the early stages of pregnancy to have a bit of spotting. However, it is a good idea to let your health care provider know about the bleeding. If the bleeding becomes heavier or is accompanied by cramps, notify your midwife or doctor right away.

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http://www.epigee.org/guide/lateperiod.h...

Well the fact that you are so late, means you could be pregnant. Take a test. You don't HAVE to wait until you can get to a doctor. Good luck.

So, are you pregnant or not? If so, some bleeding could mean that you should see the doctor as soon as possible. It could be normal, but it could also be a miscarriage or even ectopic pregnancy which is definitely no joke. I suggest you call the doctor and tell them you are spotting and you need to get into the office as soon as possible. They will test your hormone levels to be sure everything is OK. But, don't put it off. Call them now and tell them you need to come in today or tomorrow.