OMG! could i have aids?!?!?!?!?

ok, so im 14 and this guy ive been having relations with (like only Bj's and Hj's) found out that a guy living with him has aids. i know that they didnt have sex (im like 98% sure) anyway, can u get aids from like sharing drinks and stuff? like just living with each other? and if this guy i had relations with did have aids, could you get it from drinking after him?? and doing what i did with him?? what are the symptoms of aids anyways? id very much like to know please!

its not like that, its his moms boyfriends brother staying with him..

Yes your age poses some interesting questions and how old are the other people and what on earth are you doing with them?

Aids is the advanced stage of HIV so I guess your friend has HIV not AIDS otherwise he would be frequently ill without appropriate anti-virals. I suguest your astain from sexual contact with either of these people especially your other friend as you can never be sure of his sexual behaviour or HIV status. Maybe the other person got it from him/ her.

Contracting HIV from non-contact activities is practically impossible. Oral sex is low risk approximately 0.02% 1 in 5000-10000 chance per incidence with an infected person, without problems in your mouth, but if you have problems in your mouth cuts, sore, recent detal, brushing teeth, flossing, visits then this can increase substantially, also their viral count can influence this too.
If that doesnt scare you, Incidentally the HI Virus enters your blood with every oral sex contact with semen, vaginal fluids blood, as approx. 4% of the surface of your mouth and 12% of the surface of your tonsils is made up of cells which the virus uses to enter.

Kissing is low risk too, other types of sex anal, vaginal carry a much higher risk particularly the recipient, your at a higher risk of contracting hepatitis B (vaccination available) as this uses the same route as HIV and is 100 times more contagious and other std麓s like HPV and Herpes.

In any event you are 14 and shouldnt be touching these people at all. If you search around the internet, living with HIV is a nightmare even with antivirals and if you contract it from your friend who is already taking anti virals or someone before him, you will develop resistency quicker. There are many resources around the internet on HIV/ AIDS please take a look. http://www.avert.org/trans.htm

What is HJ?

no you can't get aids just from sharing drinks and stuff. It's not CONTAGIOUS. But I'd definately be more careful.

You cannot get AIDS from sharing drinks and such. Only by seual intercourse.

your answer is no. the more important question, however, is how, at 14, you're hooking up with someone who is old enough to have a roommate.

OMG!!! Why are you doing theses things at 14! That's crazy!Your young you can still wake up and change your values. If you continue on this path the aids you didn't get this time will maybe find you with the other guys you'll be having relations with. BTW great point BUBBAB

Sweetie any activity that exchanges bodily fluids puts you at risk (blow jobs are still sex acts, it's just considered oral sex). You can not contract AIDS from social situations (being around a person, using the same glass ect.) Transferring of blood, semen, vaginal fluids, breast milk ect. is a no-no the virus is highly concentrated in those, and minimal in saliva. The symptoms of the virus are similar to the flu, night sweats, severe weight loss, swollen lymph nodes (the area under your chin inside the area of your jaw bone are the easiest to feel), fatigue (being very very tired all the time) but don't freak out because these symptoms happen for tons of things. It takes at least 6 months for the antibodies to show up in your body (the time is would take you to test positive for the virus) I suggest you go to the local clinic and get tested just to be 100% sure and get your friend to go get tested as well so there will not be any worries.

How old is the guy you're having sex with? Should I report this?

I feel you need to rethink your activities but you really need some sound information about the symtoms..Mayo Clinic.Com