Would you have sex with someone after meeting them for the third time?

Ok, yes I really need the sex, but I feel guilty about doing it with someone that I really don't know. We have known each other over the net for about over a year and met twice. We are meeting again today and have agreed that there would be no sex. He is coming over to my place and I have the gut feeling that there will be sex and to be honest I want it. I have told him that I would have sex with him but not now. He did get tested for aids and it's neg. and he has a vasectamy done. So I am ok, but am confused about if I want to do it this soon. How would you handle your urge and the situation?

Ok someone said that there are lot's of things out there, I just mentioned he got checked for me.

Then someone said to save it, I already have a kid.

Third don't call me a loser, if I was I would not worry about it so much.

Only you can answer what you would feel comfortable doing -- both in the moment and after the fact. Although you have talked about your sexual history, etc ... USE PROTECTION if you choose to have sex. A lot of people (especially men) don't show any signs of having an std ... and you don't have to be promiscuous to get one.

If you find that you don't really want to have sex, only need the physical release ... perhaps take care of things yourself before the date. It will at least clear your mind so that you make the decision without a hormonal overload making you do something you regret later.

After your added details: I don't think they routinely test people for things like HPV and Herpes. Its hard to test for them if someone isn't having an outbreak (which some people never do, but still pass it on). Protection really is best until you are definitely in a monogamous relationship for a while.

If you want it then go for it. It's your body and it's up to you whether you feel comfortable sharing it with this guy.

One thought. Even if you feel you trust this guy, don't trust that he was being completely honest about STD tests and having a vasectomy. After all, it's your health that's at stake. In other words, make sure he uses a condom.

Don't listen to all of these ppl telling you your a loser or that there is to much out here! If you are really feeling him and you know he has respect for you because obviously you have it for your self than do it!You may have only seen him twice but you have known him for quite some time! Just let it flow if it happens than it happens.......Good Luck!