Im happy with my wife of 5 years but..... help me please!!!?

Yes, as far as the "in love" feelings go, they have matured. We both work day jobs, and when we get home, I usually go to my father's house for some guy time every night. My wife and I spend alot of time together cuz we both work at the same place. One night about 2 months ago, she wanted me to stay with her insted of going to my dads and I did not want to. Honestly, there was no real reason I wanted to go, just that I like my alone time. Let me add, I have always worried about every little thing, since childhood. I even thought I had aids once, took the test, it was neg, and I still didnt believe it....lol anyways. I went and I asked myself why do I want to go so bad, I honestly dont need to, but then the worries came.... What if its because Im falling out of love with her??? and from then on untill now, I have been freaked out searching all over the net on what is falling out of love. Any bad break up I read, I panic even more... then i think to myself, everyday is typical with her..

And ya everyday is typical, same thing over and over and I dont feel excitment all the time....and I dont really like doing other things when she wants to, but I do it anyways so she will be happy. I love her so much and I dont want this to mean Im falling away..... I love her..... oh and I dont miss her all the time like I used to.... is that bad? Im so paniced and scared that it covers all my emotions. Im depressed......

Cure for this problem: Do many loving things for your wife. As you do things for her, the loving feelings will follow the loving actions. And, don't go to your dad's house every night. In fact, you should not go to your dad's house more than two nights per week. Your time and attention should PRIMARILY be focused on her.

Your time together at work does not count. I repeat, WORK TIME DOES NOT COUNT. You need to spend quality AND quantity time with her. You can't do that if you're hanging out with your dad.

The fact that she asked you to stay home is a hint. This is a problem. It' sup to you to fix it.

Sounds like you have fallen into the trap of predictability. I advise you not to take your wife and your time together for granted.

Working together can definitely spoil some aspects of the marriage. Here's are some questions - How are finances? What are conversations like on the commute to work?

You need to break the monotonous routine.

you need to get ur head back on ur shoulders. calm down and breath,if u r thinking about it obviously something needs to happen,why not try to spice up one night? i dont understand y people wait for it to go away why not prevent it? if ur bored she is too so do something about it.

You strike me as someone who has anxiety. For most couples I would say that it is normal to spend some alone time. Just as long as it is not so much time that neither one of you is feeling rejected or lonely.