I need help really badly?

so earlier tonite my boyfriend was you know doing it with me and i didnt know i had gotten my rag and we sord of did 4play and when he was eating me out he realized he had blood all over his face and he turned the light on and there was blood everywhere and he freaked out and ran to the bathroom and started calling me a ***** and a nasty slut and all this **** and of course i was really embarrissed so later tonite he called me and dumped me because he ate my blood? what do i do? do i make him go get a test because he doesnt know that i have an std because i never told him and i kinda sleep around alot and is it possible to get aids from eating someones blood sord of ? please help me

Did you like being burned by the idiot who gave you the STD???? Well nobody else would like it either....the "rag" is the least of the two evils here. 1 in 4 people have freaking herpes because of people not informing their partners of their conditions. If you think you are responsible enough to have sex, then you should know you have a responsibility to tell your partners of your STD before you let them hit it!!!!!!

first of all wow.

for future notice, if you know you're "on the rag" warn your bf before hand.

secondly, if you are not monogamous then you should both get tested and use safer sex practices.

so far as getting aids from eating someone's else blood. Yes, it is possible (there are risks). Aids is transferable through bodily fluids. If you believe that there is a chance you have AIDS or are HIV+ you should definitely go get tested.

Better to be safe and know what you have, than sorry. Talk to your partners and have a mature relationship. Especially is sex is involved and you are not monogamous.

grow up. How irresponsible of you to let a man go down on you KNOWING you have an STD... are you nuts or just young and inexperienced... just tell guys you do not like that and insist they wear a condom...

what do you do? you call him and apologize for not being responsible -- be reasonable and tell him that although what you did not tell him was very wrong, that calling you names is immature and not solving anything..and never take this man back...

However, in the future, learn from it.. be responsible with your sexuality.. if you want to play, you have a responsibility to be honest.. how would you like it if some guy gave you crabs or something worse.

Honesty is always the best policy.. and if you can not be honest with your partners, then you obviously should not be getting intimate with them... hello?

Tell him you're fine with being dumped but that he needs to have himself checked because there is a chance he received an STD from you.

For future reference, you need to tell all guys beforehand about any STD's you think you might have. And if chooses to still go through with it, he should wear protection.

well to be honest u kinda owe it to him coz u really shouldnt let him do stuff to you if you have an STD & really ppl should have a rough idea of when they r going to get their "rag"

idk

You absolutely owe it to him!!!!

Any bodily fluid that comes in contact with the pubic area during intercourse or oral sex- is at risk of contracting an STD. The fact that you lack responsiblity to tell a person that you have an STD BEFORE they have sex with you shows your lack of character in honesty and integrity. You gave a comment on "is it possible to get AIDS from eating someone's blood sord of". I suppose you have AIDS/HIV and are anxious and embarassed of exposing this to your sexual partners. This is beyond irresponsible, and I recommend that you call anyone that you had sex with to tell them to get tested. It is immoral, otherwise.

If you knew you had some form of std why would you allow anyone to go down south. You took his rights away by not letting him make a decision on whether or not to have sex and do stuff like that knowing you have an std. How would you feel if someone did that to you. Of course you need to tell him and have him tested for what ever disease you have. and as far as sleeping around, that's fine but why cant you use a condom so you dont get diseases. everyone has the right to do whom and what ever they choose, but with some level of responsibility. I am not blaming only you for not using protection, apparently he wsnt too concerened about it either so shame on both of you. after this dilemma could you please for you own well-being start protecting your self. I know sometimes you may find yourself in compromising situations but please be careful. goodluck oh and I would suggest that if you are on a regular period cycle, keep a calendar and jot down when you are due. i am sure the next guy would truly appreciate it and you will save yourself the humilation.. peace