Shoud i feel bad?

ok about 2 years ago my hubby say he may have aids and i told him if he did and gave it to me i would kill him so we got tested and it was ok he had nothing well now i found out i have a std we dont know who gave it to who but we now both have it should i feel bad what should i do..

By looking at your prior questions - it's warts y'all have?

If he's not your 1st partner.... it could've been YOU who gave HIM warts.
Warts (HPV) take quite a bit of time to grow & be noticeable... so either of you could've had it for years and not known it.
You were not wrong to say what you said about HIV...I'm pretty open-minded, but that is the one STD that I wouldn't take the chance of sleeping with him...unless you have children and need to "stay in the marriage"...

But warts? Have them frozen off - they might recurr...and move on with your marriage..forgive each other & live happily ever after

I think the TYPE of STD is very important in the context of your question. Some are VERY easily contracted & stay a long time. We also dont know if these are conditions that you/he contracted DURING your relationship - or before. If it was all before - and you werent aware of it - no one should really feel bad. If it was contracted DURING your relationship - you have a little more on your plate than a Doc visit to rid the condition.
I hope all goes well on all fronts for you!
Good luck!

well, if you were screwing around on him at the same time then it doesn't matter, just get it treated together. If you weren't- go ahead and kick his A$$ to the curb, because he's a moron that is going to kill you eventually. If he is TOO stupid to use a condom in his ...adventures with other men or hookers, scumbags or addicts selling sex, then he's looking to kill himself & why are you so stupid as to let him kill you, too? For love? Get over it. People that love you don't try to kill you. Make him use a condom with you, every time, oral sex included. If you cannot do ANY of the above; you're too stupid to live- and well on your way to fixing that. Was that honest enough? Because I cannot believe you're even having to ask this.

in every question, you got a problem..sounds like you got major insecurity issues? either u think ur fat and ugly or something of that sort.. u need to learn to love urself first before u plan to love someone else.. if that was the case, u wouldnt of been in this mess right now.. obviosuly, ur with a husband who doesnt give a damn about u..and ur only with him for ur 2 kids and the fact that u think u cant move on bc u have such low insecurities.. u put urself among this mess and now u need to get urself out of it sooner or later.. this man ur with is goin to hurt u even more, if u havent been the 1 sleeping around..then he got the genital warts from another person.. dont u understand that? this man ur with is cheating on u and sleepin around with other women bc hes not loving u at home.. i feel so sorry fo women like u.. u need to wake up and smell the coffee.. u dont deserve wut u are gettin and i think u need to realize that u need to find a man who is goin to love u fo u and not cheat on and bring u on stds.. ur man is supposed to bring home money and love.. not stds.. LEAVE HIM! or be the pathetic wife u are by stayin with this dirty husband of your's.. ur 23 u say? and ur husband is 37? he should be teh 1 kissing ur butt not u kissing his.. hes the old fart in the picture.