I'm hurt I want to go to college really bad husband is in the military ?

Everything in my life sucks right now and I regreted not going to nursing school when I did pass the test to get in.
I didn't go because I knew I could not afford it and had nobody to help me pay to go. I didn't think I could get aid because I'm married.
My husband is a jerk so I knew he would not help me he said he would when he got his bonus but that's next year.

It broke my heart and I really wanted to go I just could not afford it. I gave up all hope. Then today the college called to see if I would still be interested in attending school it's been a year now sense I was accepted and they called.

I am thrilled and I also don't have faith in myself I am good in every subject but I suck so bad at math I'm horrible really horrible and I am embarrassed by it.

I always wanted to go to college and after my mom and dad died I had nobody to help me go I had to work and I couldn't afford a student loan and I didn't have someone to sign for me.

I just feel like I am getting the opportunity to go and I can't go any advice for me? I been crying sense the college called me today I want this with all my heart but I don't think it wil ever happen.

What should I do? I put so much of myself off so I can take care of our son and my husband and he goes to school and when he is deployed I'm alone. I just feel like school is never going to be the right time.

my husband said with all the deployments it's just to hard and these deployments with him been going on for 5 years. I pay almost all are bills seems like as a married couple we could figure out something but he just lets it go.

Me and you are in the same boat I talk to my husband about this Im in japan and I hate it i love my husband be school is my future our future his okay with it for now but I no its going to be a fight when time come to time Im goin to medschool
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PS mrsbates u cant do nursing online

my sister in law also married into the military, and has a two year old son. She is currently enrolled in a surgical tech program. It can be done! Her hubby gets deployed 6-7 mo out of the year. He's supportive, but she's hardheaded and would've done it anyway. You CAN do it.

If your husband is in the military you as a dependent will have your college paid for. Go to the college and call them and see what you need to bring in. Im retired and my stepson had his college paid for and about 900 a month for whatever.

try going to school online. they have a variety of financial options, and if u need a student loan, u don't have to have a co-signer.U could also still work and not have to disrupt anything in ur life. Make sure u have a reliable computer before you enroll in any online courses!! good luck!!!

ditch the jerk and go see a counselor. file for alimony and/or a share of property and take a car with you. you can rent a room or apartment somewhere and get a job. good luck.

who will take care of the baby when you are in school? do they have on site day care? this seems to be your biggest problem.

um, get a grip, girl. you are not someone's pet. you are a free, smart person with your own life you are responsible for. of course, of course of course you can go to nursing school and you can pass and you can do it. you can.

go to the school and ask them what help they can give you. tell them you want this. the world needs good nurses. they need you. being a nurse will enhance your self esteem and your life. and your childs life.

my niece thought she could not afford college. she went to the admissions office and told them her story and they gave her a full scholarship they had available for people like her on the spot. true story.

i am terrible at math. that is what tutors are for. everyone, my dear friend, everyone is better at one or the other, language or math. most are not good at both. schools know this and they do allow for this. ask around. how do you think anyone graduates college!!!! haha.

so first thing tomorrow, without delay, go in person to this school, to these people, make any and all appointments you must make to speak to whoever is going to help you do this. you willl do this. it will be exciting, fascinating, and you will be helping to make the world a better place. present your plan when you have it in place to your husband, as a cooperative, involved partner in the success and happiness of your married life and future.

can you do this? i know you can. you will.

wow- you really want this...go for it! really...do whatever it takes or ..you guessed it...it will never happen and you will just look back on it wishing you had done it. I'm serious- it's not like you are wanting to run away to Europe..you are wanting to better yourself and your life so there should be no hesitation. Hope that helps :)

Hunny if your husband is active duty military then they passed a new bill in January 2008 that states the wife can use his G.I. Bill. I am currently using my husbands G.I. Bill and it is paying for EVERY BIT of my school and my books. You have plenty of options. Take out student loans. You will be making enough money when you get out of school to pay them back. Apply for scholarships. Before I started using my husbands G.I. Bill I was getting all of my school paid for by scholarships. I had a scholarship for being married, I had a scholarship for being married to a Marine, I had a scholarship for being left handed, I had a scholarship for coming from a home w/ divorced parents, and I had a scholarship for writing a paragraph paper on whether or not there should be a school uniforms in high school. You can get scholarships for ANYTHING, you just have to be able to put forth the effort to find and get them! Now is the time...the more you put it off the more excuses you will make for why you can't go!! Just do it!

yes you should go to college and your husband should stand behind you on this matter, you can go to college right at home on the computer there is special-grants that you can look into that might be able to help you pay for your college degree. if you don't you will regret going and be very unhappy. if it makes you happy go for it. good luck

No one is worse at math then I am!! I am 28 and am trying to currently pass a algebra course. It SUCKS!! Girl, it is never the wrong or right time to go to school. Just go. Go talk to them, they have ways of helping you. I am married and never thought that I could get help to pay for it. Yes I have student loans that I have to pay back but so what!! I also was approved for federal grants and federal loans. Go and talk to them. If you wait for the right time you will never find time.

I go to school online at Kaplan. Check them out if nothing else works out for you.

Now is the right time - just do it. Check into all the grants and also call the school back and tell them that you want to go, but can't afford it. They may have some type of program that will help you. Don't give up on this dream of yours. You are going to regret it the rest of your life if you don't go. What if this marriage doesn't work and you have no way to support yourself and your son? And don't worry about the math - just get in school and do it now. There's no better time than the present to do it. Get up in the morning, hold those shoulders up and call that school. If you don't do it for yourself, do it for your child. Good Luck :)