What are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man?

ok, what are the risks of having gay sex with a 40 year old man. i am 16 and had sex with the school coach (don't judge please)... my parents are leaving the state for 1 week, and i am staying home alone. and i know this 40 year old man that is a hunk and buff. and he told me to have a little fun this saturday. so i said yes... he took test for crabs, aids, ect. so what are the risks...

Cody,

Yes, of course there is the risk of HIV and other STDs, but that's not my main point.

I do not think that a 16-year-old and a 40-year-old can have a meaningful relationship, in terms of "boyfriend" relationships.

Of course, in terms of purely physical attraction, and physical sex, it could happen. But physical sex is only one aspect of a relationship.

A 16-year-old and a 40-year-old could have any number of relationships, but I do not think that any meaningful relationship you could have with this man would involve sex.

It sounds to me like you are focusing only on the physical side of the term "relationship," and that is a pity.

The risk is that this guy could come in your house and nab you and toss you into a van and then ship you off to be a sex slave for some person that doesn't care about you at all! He could also have sex with you and then want to get kinky and wind up killing you. (Smothering/Bondage) The other risk is that this man could also bring friends and then you have a gang rape situation. Personally I would be more afraid of them throwing me in to the sex trade. You are the perfect age for someone to grab in order to make a ton of money. There is a lot of money to be made out there on young boys and girls. They are sold easier because most people do not suspect a 16 year old of carrying diseases. The younger they can get them, the more money they can make off them in a short period of time.

I am sure you also know that him having sex with you is illegal so I won't dwell on that but one has to question the motives of a 40 year old guy who is so eager to bed a 16 year old. It's either going to be about lust or money. Either way, you would be the one getting screwed ... and not in a good way. Avoid this situation at all costs.

i don't think you seeing this guy is a very good idea. You are only 16 he's an adult, it shouldn't be that hard to find guys your own age or maybe 1 or 2 years older. He's 40, he's most likely taking advantage of you, i don't think that you are emotionally ready for that kind of adult relationship, or fling or whatever it could be.

you had sex with your coach but how!? well i wouldnt trust me because i mean hes 24 years older than you thats 24 extra years hes been ******* peoplpe he is a ho trust me i know the oldest i go for is 33 and im 18 so yeah im dating a 30 year old but idk if hes for me i say you should go for a young guy so like that you both can experiment together and learn more

Being mentally and emotionally more screwed up than you are now. I would like to kick your coach's *** then go hunting for the next pervert you have circling you like a shark; fortunately I won't have to they will probably end up in jail THEY ARE LESS TOLERATED THERE. Please do not do these things, seek help; I bet a professional would take this kind of case for free ( I would) GOD HELP THIS CHILD

Well sometimes it takes a while for the results to show up positive on those kinds of tests, even symptoms. Just because he looks clean on paper doesn't necessarily mean he really is.

There is always going to be that "risk" when you have unprotected sex. So stay protected.

Nothing if he's tested and clean.
Except underage sex legally.
But that's a problem for him, not you.
But, it's really an issue for both of you -__-

You're very young and he's much more matured than you, so you know..
But do what you want, your life :)

No matter how many tests he took, something can always show up later on.
If you are determined to have sex with this man, please use a condom! Protect your self so that you will be safe to have sex in the future.

a aids test can never be 100% so there is always a risk...... and this man may be a hotty but if he did sleep with u he would become a sex offender and need to be locked up as he is far to old 4 u ...

if he doesn't have any std's then just your reputations (his career), self respect. The whole moral can of worms. But if you both are ok with all of those things and are positive you wont get caught...nothing, I suppose....

you guys get caught then he'll be in a shitload of trouble. posting things like this on the internet won't help you either. have fun though. lol.

if both are clean, the only risk is getting caught. lol. just enjoy it.

lol your alittle young. It may be a 1 minute ride.

if hes not negative for it then do it if hes positive dont

It might be too much fun...

LOLZ

LOL!!!!^^

LOL... Your in risk of never being able to take a dump right...

wow.
don't judge?
sure, why would i....

lulz.

You're in risk of becoming gay

also AIDS