Im scared to lose my virginity and what can i do to get over it already?

its like i feel ill be a virgin forever because i keep thinking everyone has aids or stds and im scared to have sex because if it..i mean even if a condom is used there is a risk you can get it..I have a boyfriend i been with for almost 2 years and im ready to do it and i want to but im scared i asked him to get a blood test and he did and hes good but i still worry i mean imagine if he cheated on me and had sex and he got it and came back and gave it to me. I cant ask for a blood test everyday lol thats crazy!

so what can i do.

Wait until the two of you are married. Peace and God bless.

Well, I think the best thing would be to talk to your boyfriend. If you guys have been together for 2 years, I assume it's more than just a fling. You should trust him. But maybe, you could get him to get tested again? and do it right after? After that, it's just you and how much to trust him. I think he should be worried about STDs and AIDs too, and he would probably not be stupid enough to sleep with someone just like that.

Well, good luck!

i do not think you are emotionally ready for sex yet you must get help your fears are totally irrational and you do not want to have the rest of your effected by them you deserve better

this problem comes down to trust may be after you are married and the commitment is made you may feel better no body in this life has a guild edge guarantee that we will not be hurt enjoy your life have fun

You may feel like you are ready, but trust me you aren't! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a virgin. And yes, there are many scary STDs out there. Don't risk it until you know you are ready to handle life's consequences: pregnancy, STDs, emotions that are involved having sex the first time.

Wait until you are in a good, trusting relationship. You are now? But you are worried that he might cheat on you..... Hmmm, you also might get hit by a bus tomorrow!

One day you just have to take that step - that leap of faith. Remember you could also get some horrible disease from touching.....almost anything that other people touch.

You two have been together for 2 years. Has he cheated on you yet? You gotsta trust him eventually or youll be paranoid forever. And youll never be able to have a normal sexual relationship.

Just chill and not have sex. You're obviously too immature to have sex.

There's no fool proof way to not get an STD except abstinence. The best way you can "get over it", is to be with someone you completely, 100% trust--Personally, I suggest waiting til you're married, but that's up to you. If your bf had the test, and he's clean, then you have to make the choice whether or not to trust him. If you think--even for a second--that he's capable of cheating on you, you shouldn't be with him anyway, let alone have sex with him. If you think he's being true, then you have your answer. I mean, I don't know how old you are, but the most important thing is to make sure you are old enough and mature enough to make this decision--too many teens take it WAY too lightly.
Good luck!