Modern day sexual health question?

In the modern day, most of the people I know and have spoken to have for a while, had unprotected sex with people they didnt know, or had only known a very short time. My genuinely serious question is, how many people on here have done something like that, and would you be offended if a partner asked you to get tested for STD's or AIDS?

Personally, I've always used protection but if a partner asked me to get tested for their own peace of mind I would. I have been tested just for my own benefit in the past.

And if my partner said that had unprotected sex, I'd have no problem making the same request of them. If they get offended well that's just too bad.

No one should take unnecessary risks in that area.

y are you bothering urself about getting

i have done it. and if the current partner asks me to, i will be more than happy to get tested. after all. i have nothing to hide or be ashamed of.

I wouldn't be offended. It is a matter of life and death sometimes.
If you ask a person to have STD test and they are offended, they are probably not the right person for you, because they don't want to be truthful in some way.

I have, I'm embarassed to say. And both me & my partner got tested, no insult, inteneded, we knew that. Good-Luck, Godbless, PEACE

I've only had oral sex (90% of the time on the receiving end) so I've never had to use a condom.

To hell with what other people think of you ASK them to get tested you could get something nasty protect Yourself at all costs

I would not be offended because I'm a guy and this is practical. A woman would be offended.

I may decide that for the person requesting it wasn't worth the aggravation though.

it would actually make me feel really great if someone asked me to get tested because I would hope it means he asks everyone he has been with to get tested and is thus conscientious of his partners and himself. I would happily go get tested with someone I was dating..

yes I have and no I would not be offended at all.

Yes, I have had sexual contact with people I did not know very well. No, I would not be at all offended if someone asked me to get tested for any STD, including HIV.

In this day and age, with STDs so common, I think it would be very irresponsible NOT to ask. When you have sexual relations with someone, you are not only having it with that person, but also with all the people that person has slept with. It's a chain and sometimes a deadly one.

Because of the nature of my job (I'm an EMT), I get tested on a regular basis (every 3 months and whenver I have had a possible exposure).

For me, it's mandatory at the start of a new relationship, if we're going to stop using condoms. I would only be offended if the other person refused to take one as well.