MEN ANSWER PLEASE this guy i know and i hooked up when i was drunk..he wore a condom and it didnt brake?

MEN ANSWER PLEASE my recent on and off bf and i hooked up when i was drunk..he wore a condom and it didnt brake or anything but i didnt ask him if he had any diseases or anything until afterwards(thinking we werent gonna hook up until at least another 3 months).when i started asking him questions like "how many girls have you been w/?..when was the last time you got tested?..do you have aids?"..he answered my questions but he was getting really annoyed and upset while i was asking and he will respond and then say"no i dont.come on are you retarded..do i look like i have aids?"..is it NORMAL for a man to react this way and get annoyed when being asked alot of questions like this or do you think he has something to hide??guys please answer
thanks

oh and we are both over the age of 18

i thought asking these kinds of things is IMPORTANT when being sexually active even if its awkward to ask

I'm a dude & I would have gotten real pissed if my chic did that. A bit of advice - next time, ask questions as serious as that before you screw the guy.

He must have thought you were a paranoid nutter.

yes i would`ve acted the same way, relax lady.

I'm a girl and yes, I would even get annoyed. Guys don't want to hear that! You discuss at a more revelant time. Timing is everything.

i guess its normal to get a little irritated if they keep asking over and over when your trying to do it. but other than that no.

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Sweetie says Its not normal for a man to react or get annoyed over your questions. You should go get tested for STDs/Aids whether you believe his answers or not.

You should have asked before, but if you feel like he has something go get tested to be sure.

F*CK YEAH!! I would be pissed off too.

You annoy me and I didn't even sleep with you...thank God!!!lol

hes obviously gunna get annoyed i would and i know i havent got out

i know i am not a guy, but why wont you go get tested for yourself?? if hes going to get annoyed then forget what he says and go get tested yourself. hope this works :-)

It may not be that he had something to hide, but man, is that a great way to break the mood. You want to get answers like that, then ask ahead of time, and not in the moment of.

Think about it...would you get turned on by hearing what women he slept with and what he did? Would that make you want to jump his bones? Of course not. Either ask ahead of time, or expect that kind of reaction.

It's great that you used protection, but work on your timing.

of course he has something to hide he is a guy, all men would react like that we dont like being questioned about that sort of thing. sounds weired even after you guys just hiiked up but it is a little personal.

Men don't care about there health like women. We are stubborn, and don't like to go to the doctor. Your line of questioning might have been a little to blunt and a little too in his face. It really isn't your business haw many girls he's been with. I definitely don't think that he is hiding anything. The only way you can REALLY be sure of anything is to go get tested with him and get your results together.

b-r-a-k-e, that is for your car dummy! Learn how to spell!

ya never know, he could be hiding something. But from my perspective, a chick can only ask if you have aids so many times before it really starts to get to ya. That's like him steppin' up to you and saying, "Are those shaving bumps or genital warts?".

You shouldn't booty call someone you would have to ask all those questions. If I was a guy I would be annoyed too.

In this day and age, asking for test status is normal and recommended. In my opinion, being asked is not something one should get angry about.

You have a right to ask for and even see a potential lover's latest test results. You have the right to ask for and see a current lover's latest test results. Do not give up this right. It is your body and even if you had sex with him before knowing, you can always say know if he doesn't give you the assurance you need.

In my community people ask for and receive initial test results, and if they are non-monogamous, they get tested at least once or twice a year.

The number of sex partners is not a true indication of risk of STDs. You really need to get his test results. I'd recommend you both test for more than HIV. There are many other STDs that while not as deadly as AIDS, could still cause difficulties.

Good luck!