My Boyfriend is Afraid to try and have sex without a condom?

My boyfriend and I have been together for quite a while now, and we practice very safe sex. He wears a condom and I take birth control. I am not on any medication that defects my birth control and get tested for AIDS and HIVs and am perfectly clear. I also at times take that day after pill as well on times I don't feel to sure about it or when i am having my period.

We are both in to trying new things and I know men say that it feels way different to have sex without a condom on then with one. I for one hand wouldn't mind to try for the fact that we are clean and that it would be a great experience for me and probably for him as well. But he tends to worry about me getting pregnant when we do this and he even tends to worry even now that we also you many sources of protection. I was just wondering if you could tell me if you really notice a difference without a condom and if there are any other methods as well and statistical facts of other types of birth control?

Wow....good for him. A lot of men aren't that concerned or careful. I've always heard that it's better for men without a condom. It sounds like you're both very sure that you don't want a baby right now and that's great that you're doing something to prevent it. As long as you're taking the pills correctly, then there shouldn't be a problem. Now, as you know, nothing is 100% effective except abstinence. The bc/condom combo is your best bet outside of abstinence, but you should be pretty safe without the condom.

my bf was afraid too. just explain to him logically that it is still safe. fyi, as soon as my bf tried it without a condom, he hates having to wear one, on the occasion that he does.

3 words CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS. if you've been with him for quite a while why are you getting tested for std's & aids ?????????????????????

Maybe when u 2 have sex, and when ur man is about to eject..... his...... manly juice, tell him to not release it in u.

Don't pressure him to do it first off, if he worries about it before sex without a condom, he will worry a TON after sex without a condom. I do know however that you can get a type of clear film that dissolves once placed inside the vagina. The downside is that it's a little pricey, but it's suppost to be pretty effective.

Well dont do it inless u want kids they say the pull out method works but it doesnt always work u can do it just beware of the consquences ahead of you n the advanages i guess...u n ur boyfriend should deffintley have a long talk about it

Yo... Most men dont believe women when they say they are on birth control... thats how tryfling h O S get hoies for child support... you gotta ake it real clear to him you don want a kid...

then respect his decision.

Your boyfriend is a smart and responsible young man. If you don't like that then you need to find another boyfriend.
He is right to worry about possible pregnancy, if an accident happened he would be paying child support for a very long time.