My In laws are getting divorced i have a question?

My sister in law caught my father in law with another women in a restaurant and he is still living with my mother in law, but they have decided they are going to split up after the home sells. I am angry at him for he is the type person who preaches "live right" .......

examples are asking ME to get an aids test before marrying his son, questioning our morals CONSTANTLY, etc etc.
my mom in law is devistated by this and I want to tell him off.

what would you do?

Pull your claws in and take the high road. As bad as you may want to tell him off and give him the what for, you will win in every-body's eyes if you just keep your composure, support your mom-in-law and do not get ugly towards your father-in-law. Just know that the next time he attempts to preach at you, all you have to do it raise your eyebrow with a questioning look on your face and he will shut up. Use wisdom in this and it will serve you well in the long run, I promise.

Stay out of it. Hes a hipocrite if you ask me.

I would leave it alone Im sure hes going to have enough problems with the divorce anyway ! Just try to support your mother in law !

stay out of it it has nothing to do with you...you aren't married to him.

write him a letter. that way you can think it over and say what you really mean to say.

let him have it for preaching to you all the time .. bust his ******* chops and don't let up.. .ever

What would I do.. lol - I can't keep my mouth shut.

But remember your husband is still connected to his father whether or not his parents are together. It may put him in an awkward position.

JMO

I think the best thing to do is be supportive to your mother in law. If your father in law approaches you with "what do you think", I would very nicely tell him that you are surprised and disappointed with his actions, since he always expected you to have good moral values.

You know I would marry the one you love. Make sure that you can get along with the enlaws or at least your mom n law first cuz in most situations...you are gonna be marryin into her life as well. Like my hubby is thirty three and he is still a "moma's" boy...and I get along great with his mom. That is rotten tho what happened. All I can say is most Men are like that. Gosh good luck to you.

He sounds like the kind of guy who doesn't think it's wrong to have a little side dish. Anything you do could harm your relationship with the son or the mother-in-law.. so be careful what you do.

If he's the high-and-mighty type, he's likely involved in the community, church, organizations, etc. and probably keeps this side of his life private. You can get this guy by chopping down his reputation with the community and those other groups. Out the S.O.B. Write letters about the situation, anonymously or otherwise, to leaders of those groups. Get his immorality out in the public eye and kick this dude off his high horse.

How would you feel if he jumped into your marriage and your business? Stay out of it. If they reconcile, you will not be able to take anything back. Be there to comfort your mother in law, but stay out of their business.

.Mind my own business.

Stay out of it it isn't your business. Of course he questioned your morals and preaches live right. That is his job as a father. Ever heard the saying do as I say not as I do. That's all he was saying. Be a comfort to your mother in law but don't waste your time on telling him off.

It's absolutely none of your business. And what he did has nothing to do with how he treated you and his son - he did the right thing with the AIDS test, by the way. He was just looking out for his son.
Nobody REALLY knows what's going on in another's relationship. Best to keep your nose out, and don't gossip.

Stay out of it, this is between his wife and himself you have no business butting in.

maybe ur father in law was discussing abt business or smt?
maybe u should investigate, cos trusting one another in a family is the correct way, marrying requires love and care for each others and their families.
if ur father in law is really that kind of ppl, u should not support him, u should support ur mother in law. She is the one getting the most hurt. But always rmb that it sm times would make ur husband akward