Advice Please!!!!!!!!!!!?

Ex & I have been seeing alot of one another past few months. Dinner every nite, etc. Problem is he is supposed to be with a woman named Tanya from Williston, N. D. They had started chatting in Jan 2006, Met in march 2006 and were to be married but when he went to Williston to move her here she gave him back his ring and told him to leave. Since then they talk/argue on phone 3+ times a day, she has told him she regrets having sex, and has gone in for an aids test (thinks he gave it to her). Yet they still together. Now she to come visit for his B-day and to move here by July 20. He says nothing good abt here anymore yet he does not want to be one to break off. Me I love and want to be with him and have put dating on hold. I am afraid I am going to be hurt once again as I think when she arrives they will pretend to be someone they not again and will be foolish and move her away from her friends and family only to find it not work and then she alone with noone. Should I wait??

his family and friends want nothing to do with her due to her games. Her family and friends dont want her with him.

Oh sweety.......If he really wants you then you must let him come to fully, 100%, and unconditionally.
Love in its true sense can only be UNCONDITIONAL.....anything less than that I would starting guessing or wondering.
Even so he might be going through a phase. Let him go through it and like I said if really truly loves you then he'll be back. If not then move on cause he's no the one for you.
Good Luck and God Bless

NO! Get out of this relationship NOW. Move on and find someone who is not screwing around with someone he met on the damn internet.

if it is even questionable that one of them is so promiscuous that they might have AIDS...run the other way and don't look back.

If your ex is with another woman, why are you even beginning to try to get with him? even if they "secretly" don't like eachother, you should wait until it is over between them to try to get back with him. and if you love him, you will wait, because it seems as though things arent goign to last much longer with them. And if it does, then they are both stupid to be with eachother when they don't love eachother.

You need to ask your ex what he really wants, its not fair to keep you hoping, keep himself and Tanya miserable. If he doesn't know what he wants, you should back off from him for a little bit until he does know. you're going to get hurt again if you keep hanging on to someone that doesn't know what they want.

i think you should not put yourself on the spot, it is like an old saying someone told me, if you really love something let it go and if it comes back it was always yours but if doesn't it never was! you sould never wait on something like this to happen! if you think, let me take that back if you are sure that he loves you as much as you do then fight for his love if not don't waste your time on it!

im a 14 years boy i dont know :[

Sounds like he still likes this girl if he is putting up with all of that.I guess if you want to wait and see what happens between him and that other girl you guys can just be friends but you will end up getting hurt if he chooses her.I dont think he knows what he wants.Maybe you should tell him how you feel and let him know that you want to be with him.If he cares for you at all he will drop the crazy girl.If he continues seeing her then he is also crazy..Good luck

wait back this s.h.i.t up to the aids part have you lost your mind go get tested and leave him alone not for your heart's sake but for dear life really

get out now. why do you want to go back with him anyway? if u couldnt work out your differences before then whats changed. you will find love in time just leave him alone