How do I ask my boyfriend to get tested for AIDS?

I don't want him to think I think he has it.But in order for us to take that next step I want to be sure that i'm not getting AIDS when we have sex.

Tell him that you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, but want to be safe and responsible about it. Tell him you think it's a good idea that you are BOTH tested for AIDS (unless you're a virgin). That way it's not putting it all on him.

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Write it on a Post-It.

TELL HIM BEFORE YOU HAVE SEX YOU WANT HIM TO GET TESTED FOR EVERYTHING AND YOU WILL TO..... THEN YOU TO CAN HAVE WILD SEX......... DONT FORGET TO TELL HIM TO GET LEVITRA........

Put it on you. Tell him "Look , when I give myself I give it all. And I don't want there to be any questions between us. So how about WE go get tested."

Just tell him. You have to remember you can't ask him to do something without you doing it yourself.

SORRY I DON'T CARE

an you take the AIDS test for me honey?

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ask him "it would be better if you tested for AIDS before we move on to next level"

thats it, it is very simple

you just have to tell him to do it. if he respects you he will

Tell him that its an important step in your relationship,if he says something like"Your my first gf"then tell him its just a precaution.

Try to be nice about it

try talking to him and telling him that you want to take the next step but you are afraid of getting AIDS and you don't think he does but you just want to be caucus. and if it makes him feel better you can go too and get checked (even if you already have)

If you have a reason to worry, don't take chances

tell him you want him tested for polio because his thingy is so small, something must be wrong...he will do it then.

Smart. Withhold all activities until he does. If he wants you, he'll do it. Seems like he'd want to know the same thing.

Suggest that both you and he get tested together, that way he'll understand that you care for him as much as he might care for you.

let him know you are just as willing

u shouldnt ask him u should say if u want our relation ship to go to the next level u will get tested for aids

just tell him that Aids is a very deadly disease and you think you both should be tested before going any further. it the ultimate way to show how much you care.

Ask your boyfriend to get tested for AIDS, and if he asks why say that I want to know that whether I am suffering from AIDS, When he gets a positive in the test it might mean that you might be also positive in the test (Just for Joke).

I would say it to him as honest as you just did to us. It is a logical thing today, and you have to protect yourself. You also have be confident in your partner, and if doing that makes you confident, he is obligated to do it. Be honest, it's your body and your life.

well just explain to him, why you want him to. If you both love each other, and he cares for you as much as you think, he'll understand. x

Just say this: Say look dude.... if you want some of this azz, then you need to get checked out for diseases.

Just tell him you want to be safe and you want him to be tested for AIDS so you won't get it. I'm sure that if he loves you and appreciates you he will understand.

Just ask him and if he cares then he won't be offended and it won't bother him.

Question.....Don't you think it would be a good idea if both of us get tested for HIV in order to protect our collective futures????
Answer....should be yes

tell him i think that we schould get tested before we move up in our relationship

better way is to ask him...are juz take him to docotr for someother reason ... inform the doctor that u r coming with ur boy friend and arrange the tests... i think u go with this...
u juz say him that u have some problem and take him to the doctor... by going there ask the doctor to test both of u with out knowing him...
first safe then sex!

Just tell him how you feel and if he really wants to be with you he'll do it.

I know that it is hard but you just go to him and tell him that before you two go to the next step you would like for you both to get checked for aids. Just do not make it sound that it is all on him. Tell him that way that you both know that you are clean and that is will be a healthy relationship.