How upset would you be, if your boyfriend told you he just had an AIDS test?

My boyfriend emailed {how impersonal} and told me he just had an AIDS test, because of his behaviour. I was pissed he would risk me!!!!!!!! More angry about the risk he gave me, than I was about the behavior,,,,,,boys will be boys i suppose. Do you think he wants me to dump him?

i think the man is crying out for attention! he is probably trying to ensure you just don't finish him off! after your questionable behavior, i'm sure he needed the test.you need to apologize to the man for acting like a ho.....say it with me "i am sorry i was such a ho" feel better? poor man, hope he's o.k. make sure you pay for the test!

I would be very upset to find out that my boyfriend had a test because of his behavior. Especially through email. I am hoping that the two of you haven't had unprotected sex. I would suggest that you get tested as well just to be on the safe side. That leaves me wondering if he told you this way because he's wanting to break up, but he doesn't want to be the one to do it. Other than being too chicken to tell you in person that he's been sleeping around, I don't see why he would tell you this way. Find out where he got tested and when he'll get the results. Make sure you find out the results first hand. Get his confirmation number, or however it's done and hear the results yourself. Not through him. Obviously he can't be trusted.

I think he is worry about it, dont think ever the HIV test like a risk situation, well, the 90% of the times is in this way. But think a little more about it, your boyfriend maybe dont want to infeccted u, in case he has something, or has a risk situation. Dont ever think the worse, let him explaind u why he take that test, and then u can do what u considerate better. (If he is a lier, just kick his a$$)

i wouldnt worry bout the dumping part, you should go get yourself checked out as soon as possible, dont put yourself in a risky situation, get out of the relationship, hopefully you are fine, but you never know what can happen if you stay in that situation. good luck

dump him and get yourself tested

dump him. get tested NOW!!!!!!!!!

I think that he was very caring to have told you the truth....would you rather he lied to you

I wouldn't care unless the two of you had sex, then I'd be irate!!!!

don't know maybe he thinks your cheating on him in that case he should be pissed

Why would you be upset? He's just checking to be sure.

atleast he was man enough to tell you. could you? and what about the risk he gave you....you choose to have unprotected sex just as much as he did.

The first thing 4 u to do is to get tested for not only HIV but other STD'S too.Dump him and promise urself that u'll never let anybody put u at risk.
If u have to have sex,always practice safe sex by using a condom.PLEASE dont MESS with HIV and other STD's.

It's not about what he wants; it's about what you want. Is it OK with you that your boyfriend is sleeping with other women? Is the "boys will be boys" defense acceptable to you? I was married for 25 years and my husband never cheated on me (and he was hot with women throwing themselves at him all the time) so infidelity is not something that you have to live with to be in love with a man. There are plenty of good men out there that will treat you better than that, if you respect yourself enough to expect to be treated well. I have a feeling that you're worth a lot more than you think you are. Decide how you want to be treated then look for a guy who will do it and remember, you don't have to pick the first guy who comes along. Be choosy. You deserve it.

HI Although I am a guy myself I think he should be more up front with you face to face about a personal situation like that sex and other things I would be would be he is scared and knows something that is why he told you he had a aids test he is not being fair with you by telling you via e-mail may he does want to break up with you and using this do have the easy way out.

I should be very careful with him be on your Gard with him I think you sould end the relationship now because of how he has gone about sharing that infomation (don't for get e-mails are not private once you send them they go from one server to another one computer to another b4 it gets to that person like your partner/boyfriend) something like that I would like to keep between me and my partner so to speak.

condomise,that way no one can risk u

Sorry, but I do not see the problem here, folks. The guy wants to know if pos or neg to hiv. I would think that everyone here would be in approval. He MAY want a test because he has been having bare sex with YOU! NO ONE is that trustworthy, sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings, but ... if you have been having bare sex with him, he has no way of knowing if you have been having it with others. Give me a break! good luck

While I think it was rather impersonal of him to send an e-mail, it sounds like you already knew he was participating in high risk activities... so if you opted to engage in sexual relations with him knowing this, you really don't have a right to be upset.

Personally, I'd rather know what the results of the test are. And, if he feels that he's at risk enough to want to go through the testing, I would highly recommend that you do as well.