If you are starting a new relationship with someone, would he be offended if I ask him to take an AIDS test?

I would suggest both of us take an AIDS test and be exclusive with only each other? Am I wrong to ask? And of course use protection (condoms). What you think?

Absolutely not wrong or insecure to ask, because this is for your life. You should be sure that the person you are with is concerned for you, and if he is upset by your request, then he has no respect for your well-being.

you are absolutly right.go for it

sure do it if you feel unsure about their history

Yes, except that you should not be having sex with him anyway until the time that you're married.

Oh yes, he will be offended.

But he he says no, drop him like a hot potato.

No its not wrong to ask him to take a test, ask him to take a test for evry std out there, then have him bring you the paperwork so you can see that hes clean,or just go with him and you two can get tested at the same time :) You can never take the risk with things like these.

no you are not wrong to ask and if he gets offended that is just to bad. You are the only one that can protect yourself that way.

I can't imagine why he'd be offended. After all, it's a pretty clear signal that he's gonna get some eventually.

In today's world, what u r asking for is completely valid! what with the high risk of AIDS and millions being affected with every passing year, its a must and should that u take every protection possible.. I'm sure ur partner will see the logic behind ur request, as both of ur safeties are under the scanner..
hope it goes well! cheers!

No, if he really likes you he would be willing to take the test and use protection.

If he is offended, drop him!! Its better to protect yourself than his ego!!

You should be sure of each other,physically and mentally.

Maybe shocked/surprised at first (for a second) but should not be offended. He should be happy you arent careless and you're responsible looking our for both of you.

do it. its so important! and if he says no, then you need to leave him or tell him that your not having sex w/ him because either he knows he has HIV/AIDS or some form of STD or he suspects that he does and doesnt want to find out. Take care of yourself first.

you really live on the edge don't you. an aids test would be fine and condoms fine too and if that is important to you there is nothing to worry about because too many partners know they have a disease but refuse to reveal it to the other person

No you are not wrong to ask. Its a very important question that most should ask. If you dont feel comfortable asking him, you shouldnt be comfortable enough to have sex with him. Even if you use protection AIDs is a topic of discussion in todays relationships. If he cares firstly about himself he will understand why it is that you are asking this of him.

for him not to be offended, say it as a joke or some way like that..

this is the most effective line:
"i heard there is a clinic that offers an AIDS test near the town. I never had an AIDS test so i'm going to take that AIDS test, wanna come with me?"

no you are not wrong at all. you are actually very responsible and should be applauded for taking precautions.

i think if he is offended, then he is either afraid of taking that type of test or he just is not the one for you.

if he just does not want to use precautions, then he is not for you.

based on his answer you can see if you two are on the same page or not and whether you should go on with the relationship. good luck!

i think depending on if this person cares about you, that should not be an inappropriate question, especially in todays world

NO YOU ARE NOT WRONG

ALL OF US SHOULD DO THE SAME
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POSSIBLY HE WILL GET OFFENDED
BUT DONT SETTLE FOR LES

IF HE DOESN'T WANT TO TAKE THE TEST
TELL HIM THAT THIS IS YOUR LIFE'S<FOR BOTH OF YOUS> AND YOU CANNOT AFFORD TO PLAY WITH IT!!!!

In all means you asking him to take an AIDS test is not wrong would he be offended o0o0 yes he will.. I really think if he really thinks of you highly and is into you he wouldn't mind and would be happy you take precautions about STD's

If he doesn't want to test then he isn't worth dating

Best of luck and power to you

If we do not know how to protect ourselves, who will?

If he refused, 1st he is not matured enough, do not know how to respect people and loving others; 2nd, he is not confidence with himself in which he often... ...

Not to scare you but that is the reality... right? You know it.