A person with HIV/AIDS?

Lets say you meet someone who you find out to be smart, good looking, funny. OVerall, he is a great person. Everything is going great between both of you. Then suddently, this person tells you they are HIV+. Would you still date the person or does that automatically means you wont date the person.

still date the person.

Safe sex, even if they arn't HIV +.

Beyond a shadow of a doubt I would continue to date them.

If I truly liked the person, I'd talk to them, get educated on my facts, and explore the possibilities from there.

"Date" of course. "Have sex" absolutely not. There are many other things that we could do to have fun together, that don't open up the possibility of spreading his infection to me. I'm not going to stop dating this person, just because they have HIV. What if this is the person that I've been waiting my whole life for? I don't want to miss out on the experience of being with this guy just because we can't have sex.

Date the person. Just make know that it will always be safe sex if it ever comes to that.

Thats a very tough and loaded question, first of all dating? are you having a sexual relationship or just having fun hanging out? If you are make sure you are well protected, I must say hats off to him for his honesty. So getting back to the answer, I personally would not have any sexual relations with him just for the simple fear of contracting the virus.

Yes, I would still date the person.

Been there. I dated David who I loved greatly. I knew going into it that he was HIV+ . It should not stop you from dating a person or falling in love with them. Kiss him, and hold him as you would any other guy.

Educate yourself about the REAL facts of this disease and you won't find it near as frightening. That these people are wonderful people and deserve to be loved.

When and if it gets to the bedroom. Talk to him, lay out some ground rules, do's and don'ts. Then love him and make love to him as you should. If he cares for you your safety will always come first.

Have fun and go for it.

I would date him, but I would have absolutely NO sexual relations with him whatsoever.

Would still date them, no problem with safe sex, and today's drugs can bring the viral load to undetectable...meaning not viral shedding. Today's drugs are extending life 20 or more years, good years. If you are a bottom, then always safe sex, which will be no different to you. IF you are a top, then I wouldn't worry much about it at all as long as there is no detectable viral load. The chances of a top getting HIV from a bottom are very low in man to man contact. Man to woman is a very different story. Good luck and peace.

Still date the person. Regardless of whether or not they are HIV+, you should still play safe. Mistakes happen in everyone's life and you shouldn't be penalized for it by not being in a relationship.
Commend he/she for their honesty if anything.

Nothing changes. I 'd be way more careful with body fluids(hell, I'm always careful anyway) But I'd think a lot more of them for having the courtesy,courage and caring to tell me. I think that is really great.

No. Most definitely not. Just be careful when performing sexual acts and everything will be fine. You don't give up something great because someone has a disease. You stand by them because they need you more than ever.
I hope you have a great relationship.

thats a hard one ... i wouldnt cuz ... then i would love him and then he dies and then i feel really bad .

This is a topic where a person has got to ask themselves that question and not someone else. I can't give you that answer. No one has the right to answer that for you either. That is your decision. If you decide to do it, understand the precautions and changes you must make in your life.