Please excuse my language but going to see a girl.?

I am sick and tired of my life and want some excitement. So I have decided I'm going to see her. I was wondering could you get aides or hiv's even if you don't have intercourse? What if you just get a BJ and tt job? Can I get a aides from that? what can i do to prevent that from happening these girl are at high risk of having aids and hiv's.

In the U.S., Canada and most of the world, HIV never has been much of a risk for heterosexual males or their female partners, as long as the women is sure the male is not bisexual, or a iv drug user, since those are the only real risks for men.

But other STD's are a much more real issue. STD's are on increase at same time HIV/AIDS is declining. We are having lots of unprotected sex, especially oral sex. While AIDS is very isolated to certain risk groups, STD's are the real issue for the majority of the population.

Most other STD's other than Herpes, are fairly easy to cure IF you know you have it. Risk is higher for women if it goes undetected and men can pass it on to women not knowing they have an STD.

For blood borne STD's (including HIV) vaginal sex and anal sex is high risk since thrusting can cause a tear on penis or vagina. This can create an open wound which allows semen or vaginal fluid to enter the blood stream. A tear from thrusting, bodily fluid mixing with blood are the STD major risks. Anal sex is especially risky if the insertive partner is HIV infected since easy access to blood sources. But heterosexual males act as a block to HIV spread since they are usually not the receptive partner, or they would be bi or gay.

Herpes can be passed by skin contact and infection although mostly when a person is having an active outbreak. Herpes simplex virus (HSV) causes herpes. This virus has two types, HSV 1 and HSV 2. HSV 1 (oral herpes) usually causes infections on the lips or mouth (cold sores or fever blisters). HSV 2 (genital herpes) usually causes sores and blisters in the genital area. However, virus from the mouth can infect the genitals and virus from the genitals can infect the mouth. Herpes virus can also infect other parts of the body.

Nasty Gonorrhea is spread between penis and vagina (infection rate for males 30-50%, females 60-90%), penis to mouth, penis to rectum, mouth to vagina. The same with chlamydia which lives in vaginal fluid and in semen. Chlamydia is sometimes called the silent disease because you can have it and not know it. Can have serious complications in women if not treated.

So if I were you I would REALLY think about this before I do it....do you want to spend the rest of your life regretting this night? Remember, somethings you can't get rid of. Hope this helps. Good Luck!!!!

I can not decide that for you..however, I can advise you not to go and meet these girls. You know that they have a high risk of having aids. Please find someone who loves you and you love. If you want some excitement in your life pursue a hobby. I don't know maybe skydiving or something. I hope you find a woman who loves you and respects you. I value you as a person and I would hate for anything to happen to you. Good Luck..just remember that there is not cure for aids. I don't want you to wake up the next day and regret what you have done.

Ummmm, This chick dosen't sound so safe dude. A lil fun ain't worth puttin up with an STD. If u do go see her,a bj shouldn't give u any disease. That is very rare. If you go all the way,at least use protection. TROJAN MAN!!! Lol!!

Yes you are at risk. Use a condom. Sorry I don't know what a tt job is.

ugh, dont do anything with her;)