Underage Sex?

im 13 and me and my girlfriend plan on having sex with each other. and we have pledged to be with each other for life. but is there any deseases you could get from underage sex if we both dont have any sort of hiv/std's/aids????

btw for all the ppl that think we wont last we already had our priest bless us to be together forrever and i believe we love each other that much and i already talked to our parents about how i felt about her so =p ur just jealous you had no ******* life when u were 13

youre only 13. your feelings can
change in like 5 minutes.

Yes and underage sex is generally a bad i dea, i dont want to sound like a nagging parent (im only 18) but Please wait. it may feel ike forever now but you never know what will happen. I know tons of people that wished they had waited and besides it takes WAY more love for eachother to respect the other enough to wait untill marrige or at least legal age! If you truely both love eachother then there is no reason to jump into such a huge move, if you think you have nothing to fear then waiting will be worth it and will add tons of weight in ou relationship. Im not saying this to be a drag, but im saying this from experience, friends, and just plain fact. Good Luck on makeing the wright choice.

ahah im 13 to u guys have got to be kidding one of my friend started having sex with boys this year 4 so far she is so messed up she started doing other things and like got sent away to this scary place in utah i mean i dont think it was all from having sex but im just saying the things i here about her is so not even worth sex. and u r only 13 if u do it now whats to look fowerd to when u r older and more mature and sure what u realllyyy want to do. and im pretty sure there is just as much as risk of getting a std actually im not sure there is the same risk but
its pretttyyy stupidd to have sex at 13

I must say the chances of you being together for life is very very slim. You are both going to change alot and more than likely drift apart.I say you should wait another year or two so it will be much more enjoyable for the both of you....and as far as deceases all there is, is.....pregnancy,broken hearts and you are a year or 2 too young..

If you're asking about AIDS, then you have no idea what you're getting yourself into. You're only 13 years old, sex comes later in life, not now. Don't even think about it. Go to school and take a sex ed class.

kid, you're just 13--don't tell us you're IN love with this girl now. If anything, whatever you're feeling is called puppy love.

you're a dumbass, you probably won't make it another two months, forget life. you're just kids, you don't know/understanding anything.

lol moron, nobody has a life at 13. what do you do, go to the mall and the movies with your friends? k very cool, again you're at an age where you think stuff is important, but really nothing is. you'll realize it in a few years.

Sure, As long as you know you two are REALLY committed to each other and she is on birth control and you are DEFINITELY using a condom. Oh, and to you not-so-"people", at least the poor kid is asking! If he's a "dumb***" as you claim, then how come he is asking? Hmm?? Got a response to that???

yeah we were smart we didnt have a sex life at 13! you are a dumb little kid that has no idea what you are talking about! you need to concentrate on school and not about something as ridiculous as marriage and sex at your age. and your parents support this crap? i dont know whos worse, them or you!~

Well you kind of young to be having sex, the only way to be for sure you don't have a std or etc. is to go to a doctor to check

if you have pledged to be with each other for the rest of you life then sex can wait until after married. atleast wait until your finacially stable becuase even if you do use a condom it can break!

the probability of you lasting the rest of your life with this person is alsmost non-existant...you should prob think about this twice before you do this

well actually you could be carrying the disease and not be infected by it so ya'll should get tested and use condoms!
but YOUR TOO YOUNG!

Yes! There's a new STD out for underages only called hornybitchosis. IT CAN KILL YOU!

Well... she could get PREGNANT!!!! Oh, but you've clearly thought this through because you're 13 and therefore so mature and responsible, right?

Wow, idiot. You're 13 and you already pledged your lives? You're both SO dumb!

WTF! first off WTF!
apart from the fact its illegal, do you actually go to school!?
that is the stupidest question ever

she can get pregnant, and u can get herpes type 1. majority of people have it. to be young and believe in love....o u will leatn..rubbers are freee babies are not

No. But you still need to use a condom!

you'll only get STD if your ur partner is infected by such.
BUT hey hey... your just 13, whats on your mind kid? concentrate
on your study first, right thing should happen at the right time.

I would say no. But let me give u a lil advice.......use a condom.

First of all, ignore that first response, they are the ignorant person.

And great job on thinking about your and your girlfriend's safety!! You two are too young to be thinking about having sex or planning a life together forever. I know that you feel like you are in love now and always will be. That being said, more than likely you two are going to proceed with this anyway, so it's better to be safe and acknowledge about what you are getting into beforehand.

Yes, there are numerous diseases you can get from sexual activity, even if you and your partner don't have anything currently. Use a condom, every time, and with every partner. Don't take a chance in not using one.

To all these people calling this kid an idiot: Yes, he's too young, but you know what... at least he is even thinking about his health and safety. How many kids that age that are sexually active or considering being sexually active even bother to much less think about it but to go so far as to reach out and ASK for advice. Given your judgemental, self-righteous, holier-than-thou attitudes and comments, just how likely will this person be to ask again???? Comments like these make me sick. YOU are the idiots. I am sure you are also the persons giving me thumbs down, but that is okay, as long as I get my point across to the person asking, that's what matters.

To the poster of this question - IGNORE these comments. You are doing the right thing in asking for advice and should be COMMENDED, not ridiculed. Yes, you are too young, but you know this, or you would not be here asking. Why don't you wait awhile until you are both older? Your feelings are going to change as you grow older, believe it or not. I was sexually active at your age, and I regretted it tremendously. Take some advice from someone who wants to help and who knows what it is like. Please just wait to have sex. If you truly believe that you two will be together always, then you have plenty of time to explore sexual activities then, don't you : )