Why do people enjoy it...?

I really don understand why people enjoy sex. i mean, i've never had sex, and i dont EVER plan on it.
i'm only 17 now.
But i dont see the point in it...i mean come on GIRLS;
theres like, NO pleasure from what ive heard and read on.
Its all pain until your broken in.
And think about it; is sex AT ALL WORTH ALL THE RISKS?
i mean, you practically are risking your life.
I know that sounds stupid but its tru. you could: [get pregnant, get an STD, HIV, AIDS, etc. , develop cervical cancer *which can be fatal* and more] && it doesnt even feel good!
i honestly plan on being a virgin foreverr.
but i wanna know all your opinions; do you agree or disagree with what im saying?? and if you disagree. why??

You will know soon enough..

Don鈥檛 rush it.

first of all: good for you!
but don't you think you're being a little extreme? that's really good for now but once you're married and you really love someone you want to give everything you have to them. and your virginity is a big part of you. and don't have sex now but when you are married you can go and get tested and see if any of you have any possibilities of passing on any fatal diseases.
and by the way...ok yeah the first time kinda hurts but after...it actually feels really good haha.

I commend you on your feelings about not having sex. The statistics are in your favor for not having sex, but I think that your sources on the actual act are very misleading.
I am in my thirties and have had several sexual partners (not in the dbl digits though). I think that these points of it hurting and not being enjoyable and not being pleasurable are completely true for the young and inexperienced, but as you mature sex isnt necessarily about the act, but about sharing a deep part of yourself. Connecting on an almost spiritual level.

i think you're retarded.
it does feel good, whoever told you that is a **** nut.
and sex cant cause cervical cancer or else all these girls would have it.

The world needs more nuns,good for you.Its good to be a virgin and clean.

biological urge. just wait until you hit 30.

agreee

Well, first off I respect your choices however, not all of what you are saying is true. When you fall in love with someone you want to give them a part of you. You want to connect on a different level. I'm not sure who you have been talking to on the NO pleasure part but, they are wrong and clearly they weren't in love. When there is love sex is so much more. I think a lot of others out there will agree. There comes a time in your life when you want to have kids (sometimes people do choose not to for their own reasons) however, sex is a beautiful things. Children are beautiful and when/if you are ever ready you will agree. You get blessed with so many things in life and children are one of them. I also hate to break this to you but, you can get cervical cancer with out having sex! I had cervical cancer at 14 and never had sex! You really can't speak for your self on that point you are trying to make about sex not feeling good and again your source isn't right. If you plan to be a virgin forever that is up to you. But, I can say that I am blessed with a beautiful family and I wouldn't have them with out sex. We are human and sex is apart of us lets be honest here if it wasn't for sex would you be here? would the popualtion of humans be around? Or any animal ? I don't think so ...