Worried about HIV, Someone Help?

Okay I just broke up with my fiance and during our relaitonship we had unprotected sex .I know this is stupid but the way I was thinking is that we were going to get married, (He already gave me a ring before we went to bed together) and we were of course going to be committed to one another. I know most married couples dont use a condom, so this is the way I was thinking. Before I got with him I hadnt been with anybody in 5 years. My ex fiance is an ex drug user, (not IV drugs) and hes been to prison before for DUI's. I know what a winner, but this is in the past. So now were broken up and Im worried that I may have contracted something? Im scared to go get tested.

He never came in me, and we probably only had sex 5 times

The only way to find out is to go get an Hiv test. They also have HIV test you can take at home. http://www.homehivtestkit.com/. I would take one now and one Again six months from now.

As the others have said, the only way to know for sure is to have an AIDSs test. As a matter of principal, you should not have sex with anybody these days without an AIDS test as it can be a death sentence. Even using a condom will not protect you from getting AIDS.

Any unprotected sex puts you at risk. The only way to find out if you have HIV is to get an HIV test. You can find free testing sites in your area by going to the website hivtest.org. Just enter your ZIP code.

There is only one way out: get a HIV test done. The number of times you have sex does not matter. If the person you have sex with is infected, you will get infected the first time you have sex with that person.

Well nuber one you need to ask the Lord for strength. Only he can help you through this. No matter the result you are going to need him in your life. Number two... just go get tested!

please dont delay getting a test if it proves positive the
treatment for hiv is now very successful,delay will only
make it worse

You gotta suck it up and get tested!!!!

You can call a Planned Parenthood clinic, or a women's clinic, or someplace similar and ask how you can get an anonymous HIV test. You may also want to get screened for other STDs too.

Please (if you choose to have sex outside of marriage)... ALWAYS use condoms. It only takes one careless mistake to ruin your health and your life.

You said he never came inside of you. 'Pulling out' is NOT a reliable form of birth control and certainly won't protect against STDs. The 'pre-ejaculate' fluid that seeps out before he actually ejaculates can contain some sperm and cause pregnancy.