Yet another anal sex question...Im a little confused!!?

The guy ive been seeing wants to try anal sex with me. Ive read many of the different questions people have asked, but i'm still not quite sure. I have tried it myself with a toy meant for that, and I kind of liked how it felt, and I would like to try it with him.

I know there are risks such as infection, HIV/AIDS and such, but Ive also read about the inside walls being torn. Thats what i'm mostly worried about. I will make sure he wears a condom, and make sure its VERY WELL lubricated the whole time.

Basically, my question is, if he wears a condom, and we make sure its very well lubricated the entire time (also if it starts to hurt I will make him stop) is there any way the inside walls can tare? Am I at a huge risk to do this?

I know many people dont like the whole anal sex because of the "laws" and "beliefs", and I completely respect that, but Im curious. Please!

Also, is it normal to see a little poo too? i'm just curious, because i dont really want to use an enema, and i havent really heard much about that!!

First- try a side by side position, or with you on top, so you can control things like how far and how fast he's going.

If inner walls tear, there will be associated pain. So if anything internal starts to hurt, that's a sure sign to stop.

As for poo, chances are there's gonn a at least a trace on the condom. Especially if you aren't going to have an enema first.
I would suggest you get yourself a cheese pizza or make some tosted chees sandwiches, to "bind you up" a little before the main event. Try for a bowel movement about an hour before the main event.

If all goes well, MODIFY YOUR POST to help others. Explain what worked for you, and what didn't.

Good luck, have fun, and stay safe !

one way traffic my dear, don't do it

if you are you not comfortable with doing this you just sit down
and talk with him.if he loves you as he say he do then he'll understand.

Sounds like you have it all planned out very well. Stay very well lubricated and take in nice and slow. And like you said, if it hurts tell him to stop............and then start again. I don't think you have to worry about tearing, it might hurt a little more than regular sex but that's because you don't use that end as much. Oh and about the poop...........it is your ***.

Just be careful, use lots of lube and go slow. Some ladies prefer it more after a few drinks. Eventually after you get used to the feeling you will like it. Try some variations maybe add a dildo or another person to your honey pot. Double P is the ultimate!