Why are bottoms...?

more susceptible to HIV infections? I'm thinking of doing it the first time with my s.o., but I don't know how to do it. And, I'm always thinking of what may happen if something goes wrong. Is it painful? How do you enjoy it?

When two men engage in anal sex it important that both know the limits. To be bottom first time means your top respects you. First hit shower and get cleaned up if you chose to use enema this can be done together.

Using a dildo or ********* to open anus up and get you use to feel of object in the anus. Lube and lots of water base lube and condoms. There will be pain but once entry is made you will feel pleasure as your partner and you work together for enjoyment.

b/c your anus tears open, so it is very easy for virus to get into blood stream.

I will prolly hurt quite a bit first couple of weeks until it gets stretched enough.

And yeah, you will need plenty of lubrication.

And no clue on how to enjoy it.

HIV is most likely to occur during rough sex with insufficient lubrication. The tiny blood vessels in the anus (capillaries) can break due to the friction. It's when the semen and blood come into contact that a person gets infected. Your best bet would be to ALWAYS make sure your partner wears a condom (and use plenty of lubrication so the condom doesn't break)!

take it nice and slow and use lots and lots and lots and lots of lubrication. start with one finger and take it from there.

mostly, i believe, it is to do with the type of cells lining the anal cavity..apparently more susceptible to HIV..and also the tissue is more apt to be torn and bleed, thus allowing the virus entry. Be safe. Use a condom. Please.

Well ask your partner their sexual history. Use a condom until you both have a HIV and aids test. The First time your anus will tear but after that it will just stretch. The first time it might tear but it hurts so much it feels good. Yes it is painful the first couple of times and it all depends on how big your partner is.

Use a condom always.

Use lots of lube, relax, and breathe.

Bottoms are more susceptible because there's more tissues torn exposing the blood stream to the virus.

Enjoying it is all up to the amount of time you take. Just don't let the guy thrust as soon as he puts it in. Lots of lubricant and deep breaths. Relaxing is the key, because if your feeling tense, down there will be as well.

First off have and ur S.O. been tested. PLzz do so. Bottoms r more susceptible to infection because there can be tearing upon entry into the anus and tissues torn. A tear will cause the virus to enter via the blood stream.

Use lots of lube and condomise.

Buy a small dildo and play. Get your s.o to be part of the fun with the dildo. Enjoying it will be because of who u doing it with and hopefully it will be done right.

Good Luck and relax