I feel as if my aunt is choosing her ex boyfriend over me, and it really hurts?

He's staying at her house, and I'm not allowed over there now, which really sucks because I need to get out of my house, and thats the only place I can go. My aunt is the person in my family I am closest to, and she's the only one I could ever say I trusted. I don't like her ex, he has said sexual things to my best friend and I when I was fifteen and she was fourteen, and he's hit my aunt in front of me before, and he drags her down to his level. Thanks to him, about a year ago she had quit taking her meds[shes HIV positive]. He does crack, and is an alcoholic, and shes a recovering alcoholic. & then she gets mad at me for being upset that she keeps letting him ruin her life.

I'm I wrong for feeling that she's choosing him over me?
& can someone possibly cheer me up?

Dude, she's family, I can't just forget her.

Yes you are wrong for the simple reason she is an adult and even if she chooses a self destructive life style thats her choice. If she is picking this kind of person over you then you shouldnt be around her anyway. The best thing you can do is move on without her. She will have to learn the hard way who loves her and who doesnt. Pray she comes to her senses but meanwhile join some clubs or organizations and try to make other friends. You have to move on without her. I had to do that with my sister.

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