What should I do about HIM and Them?

There's this guy that's interested in me. He's a Home Owner, Drives a Mercedes Benz S550, Owns and works at a barbershop, Notary, Licensed Contractor, and A Father of Three Daughters by two different Women. My friends and Family keep bugging me to date him but I'm not really interested in him. I'm not physically or sexually attracted to him for one, Two I'm not fond of dating men w/ children, and three he has admitted to sleeping with someone who was HIV POSITIVE. He claimed he slept with her only once and with a CONDOM but i'm not taking the risk. I'm to afraid. He calls constantly. I tell him i'm not interested in him like that. He gets upset and says "oH YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS OUT ON A GOOD GUY LIKE ME" ETC.... "When I call you I expect you to pick up on the first ring etc...... And I'm like who the hell do you think you are. My family esp. my mother keeps pressuring me about dating him even after all the negatives. I guess it's my Money hungry MOTHER's perception of a Great Guy for me.

If I were you I would leave that man alone indefinite. He's sounds like BIG trouble. He's also very cocky. You don't need someone like that in your life. He might have all the necessary qualities but he's not the one for you. As far as your mom it can be tough esp. if she just wants you to date someone b/c of money purposes for her. Why doesn't she date him then. She doesn't sound positive esp. when she knows that he slept with someone who was HIV positive condom or not yuck. Good Luck!

Its your life and your decision...stop answering his calls period if he is talking to you like that. He sounds like an egotistical jerk to me! If he is that wonderful where are the mothers to his children and why are they not with him??? and sleeping with someone that is HIV positive, condom or not is risky behavior! Tell your mom to mind her own business!

You should explain to him why you don't want to see him and maybe he'll understand. Or you could also have him be tested for HIV and if he is negative than you should really give him a chance see how you like the kids and ect. and maybe you just may find that you do like this guy. Plus he has money lol not that , that matters lol.

GROSS. this isnt the olden days with arranged marriages. He sounds like a CREEP. If you don't like him.. keep telling him. Eventually he will get the hint. Tell your family to mind their own business as well. You are fully capable of finding someone you truly like on your own.

run run run, nothing good will come of it and tell your mom to go start working the corner if she is so into sleeping with guys for $, what a horrible mother, she is a real cun*

he sounds like a really bad guy to date
if it were me i wouldn't do it far too many negatives and its your life your mother should respect that he isn't the kind of man you are looking for

don't listen to your mother,go with your own feelings,and besides he sounds like a player to me and won't settle down with you in the end.HIV is forever!

Money is not everthing ask your mom if she wants you to be happy ?that is number 1.

if u dont wanna date him don't . Its so simple , go find yourself a boyfriend so he at least knows youre off limits geez

Just walk away.

ok your mom isn't dealing with him you are...since u are not interested cut off all contact with him dont answer his phone calls OR text or email. he'll get the point, he's not the only wealthy guy out there!!!

wat freakin jerk! fukc dat stupid as man !

a la verga w/ him...u can do way better dan him.no doubt

You should NOT date this guy at all for one you already said that you are not into this guy and just because he has a nice car and money means nothing it's not all about that and another big reason is he had sex with a woman that had HIV and you don't know for sure if he really used a condom unless you were in the room with him. If i were you I would not take that chance you are a grown woman and you have to make your own choices. I can tell you now he is not the one for you and if your family has a problem with that then that's too bad you have to decide for your self who and what you want.