DESPERATE ADVICE ABOUT HIV?

Hello all,

My faltmate has been infected with HIV for almost two months now,
I only knew two days ago when his boyfriend phoned me to tell me to make sure I tell my friends (should they get intimate with him).

Problem is: he never told me, I k now he has been with a new boyfriend over two weeks now, they do have sex, including group sex.

When i spoke to my flatmate about it, he denied that he carries HIV, but i know he does because I found ATRIPLA bottles in his trash bin.

His bf was panicking over the phone and told me to be aware because my flatemate loves to "sleep around".

I am annoyed with him very much. I haven't told him I know. I have a social responsability towards the guy he is sleeping with now (i havent seen him for 3 days now, the day i knew actually) and i m lost. i really really need advice. i also want to leave the flat becuase i felt he is not fair for not telling me. I have shared with HIV positive people before and i know that HIV does not go from person to other sharing housel but he is lying and he is destroying other pple's life.

please advice. anything, personal stories.
take care and thanks for ur replies.

thank you ladies,

i was thinking in the beginning that he deserves a chance, but you're bringing me closer to my other suspicion: he won't get respect and support by the way he is behaving.
thank your for sharing your stories.

i would report him to the police that is premeditated murder then the police can notify everyone that needs to be notified of his condition and the media can inform people so it dont kill someones innocent wife or unborn child when you sleep with someone your not just sleeping with them but everyone they sleep with and everyone there loves sleep with and on and on..

Ask youself, Would you wat someone to tell you. If you answer that Question, you will know what you need to do.

this is a very serious disease, and the fact that he is not telling u is just like lying, its dishonest. i think it may say more about his character. as far as others, i would have to tell them. its only fair. wouldn't u want someone to tell u? they can catch it earlier now and put them on preventive drugs to keep them from getting it or keep it from progressing into AIDS. if someone i knew got infected because i didn't speak up, i couldn't live with my self. u cant always take the easy way out. but i don't think i would want to share anything with him.