I wore a condom,but my penis only entered about 3mm into the vagina. while removing the condom, i touched the.?

front pointed part of the condom. basically, the penis did not enter into the vagina at all. Only about 3mm into it. what are my chances of contracting HIV if the women is HIV positive, since i touched the front of the condom.. besides, the women uses gel on her vagina.

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my main worry is... it did touch the vaginal opening, and chances are the condom might be stained with the vaginal fluid, and i actually touched it.

Just touching is not going to give you HIV. The virus cannot survive outside the human body for any length of time that is measurable.

You are so over reacting! Is this your first sexual experience? Have u never touched (fingered or licked) a girl before? You need to read more up on AIDS to alleviate all the fears you have. Being cautious and practicing safe sex is paramount, but being paranoid is wrong. The reason for the condom is to stop your bodily fluids mixing with hers should either of you be positive. Not your finger, unless there was a big open gaping wound and you were inside of a positive infected person and even then Im sure theres more to it.

if you had on a condom and didn't even start to enter what are you worried about? why would you have sex with someone who is clearly hiv positive? are you in a relationship with her?

If your penis only entered 3mm's into her vagina I think your chances of getting it are slim to none you have to enter first I don't think you where actually in.