If a man was hiv positive and didnt tell you for a year would you stay?

we were already engaged and if im now to become positive should i forgive and understand or leave and prosecute him

I think if your contemplating prosecution you need to know if your positive first, your jumping the gun.
As for Leaving him, I would be leaving him because he lied to you, not because he's positive.

If he knew and didn't tell you and you were having sex, especially unprotected sex, I would kick his butt to the curb and he would never hear of me again. A man that loves you wouldn't do that.
I wouldn't do it only if I tested positive. I don't care how that test turned out. He would be gone!

I know it's a really emotional issue if you love the person, but it's also the biggest betrayl in the world. He threatened your life.

-Connor

Stop seeing him. Check yourself. When you have the results, you decide.

If you are HIV positive and want to leave him, consider that you may be lonely for a very long time and if you tell people, nobody wants to have anything to do with you and if you don't tell them, then you do exactly the same thing.

I hope you are clear.

If it were me, absolutely not. If he knew he had it and did not tell me, that is a complete breach of trust. Not to mention that he knowingly put me at risk to contract something that could kill me.

As for prosecuting him, you need to find out if you have it first. If you do, absolutely. It would be considered attempted murder.

Hell No!!!! Leave and prosecute him!! I would be devastated! Why would someone tell you they love you and not tell you a potential life altering fact like that! Do you want children? Because it could possibly be passed to them! I'm sorry, I don't think people who are HIV positive have cooties or anything, but why would you not tell someone before sleeping with them that you care about? That is just my opinion.

mum if someone knows there hiv positive and they don't tell you and have sex . that's attempted murder. how can you love someone that does value your life. he has something that will kill you and doesn't give you the opinion of walking away until you are connected to him wow run and run fast

I'd say hell no. That's not a little white lie we're talking about here. I don't know about prosecute, but I'd definitely not want to see that persona ever again.
Did this person know he's HIV positive?

How could you marry someone who lied to you for a year about something so serious?!? I would not be able to forgive him for that.

well if he knew and had sex without a condom then he really deserves to be prosecuted - that's like the equivalent of murder if you think about it

This is your own personal business & should not concern Men's Health.

i say be understanding, but still leave him. then again, you might not have it.

EWWW NO.

this is very personal for you to keep private.. but it you love him then stay