Would you if she/he was positive?????

if you where talking to someone and was never sexuall with them and the day you thought you were gonna get some she/he told you they were HIV+ what would you do????????

I don't know what I would do but I do know what I wouldn't do.

I would not take the chance of having casual sex with someone that is hiv positive.

If it were someone I loved and was married to that would be a different issue. There are precautions you can use but your still risking your life.

Turn and run if you want to live!

That's one of the two reason they invented CONDOMS (of course, pregnancy being the other) ;););)

However, I would be very upset that they waited until that point to mention this "little" fact - it is bordering on lying to conceal something this major. I'm not saying that this should be "first date" material - but it should come up LONG before things head off to the bedroom...

I know it's not a comfortable topic - as some of the other posters have made QUITE clear - but it is still something that should be talked about HONESTLY. After all - honesty is one of the cornerstones of a successful relationship :)

i would say, i am sorry but i can't do this why didn't you say that you have HIV before this instead of leading me on.i would also say, i am sorry but i can't live my life wondering and worrying when he/she going to die.then tell them if i like/love them, but i love my life and my family.........sorry good bye. that is what i would say.

i wouldn't have any sexual contact with them. its too risky. i'd probably be sad that i wouldn't be able to get any from someone i really liked