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So me and my boyfriend (Yes i am gay) where having a little talk last night and he told me he wanted to have sex, but we can't because i was tested positive a few weeks ago (had sex with some random dude at a party). Now he said we could do it but we have to where a condom, but i do not want to because it sucks, so is my risk high, i mean its not gay if the balls aren't touching right?

better not do it at all..

Yes your risk is high.

for both of your sakes, don't even risk it. you are very high risk....any genital to genital contact or anything like that can make him susceptible to contracting it. if you don't follow my advice, at least be very very careful. the thing is though, condoms have a higher likelihood of breaking especially during anal. so be careful

Exchange of body fluids will infect your partner or anyone else you want to have penetrative / oral sex with. Condom is a must (even that can cause problems in stray cases). Avoid completely if you do not want to use a condom.

are you serious???

if you are, the only certain way to never get HIV or infect someone else is to not have sex. but if you do it's essential that the proper protection is used.

why didn't your doctor give you that information? if you are serious you should call your doctor or go to your local clinic it would be very helpful.

If you are already HIV then the risk of passing it on is extremely high. Not worth taking the risk for. But if you use the condom the risk is so low. The only chance is if the condom splits. Whats wrong with not using a condom, not using one is what got you infected in the first place. Think of your partner here. He obviously love you as he is standing by you. Don't put his health at risk just because you prefer the feeling with out a condom. Gay sex is always a high risk of passing on HIV. Has your partner been tested for this infection. It is important that he is.

And sorry but I don't understand about its OK as long as your balls don't touch.

Why would you even risk it

if you have HIV and have un protected sex you are a murderer

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