How do I find out how many other women my now ex has been dating. I've found out 7 kids call him dad?

I thought Richard traveled all the time for his job. After dating him 9 yrs I recently found out he had another family in TN. I was never allowed in TN because he said his parents did not like me. I really did not know them. I found out on line he was hiding the fact that he was travelling to TN when he said he was working. Seeing an ex and her kids he told me had moved and hadn't seen in 6 yrs. I busted him and he said it was my fault he did not tell me. They knew all about me including the fact I am HIV positive and have been for 13 yrs. He blames the break up on me saying I should have trusted him that he was not sleeping with the Mom. I think if he lied about the kids he's lying about the Mom. Heck the 21 yr old daughter threatened me for messing with "her family" I didn't know anything about her or her mom. Why is it my fault. I figured the "homewrecker" is the one that knew the man had another home. But if she thinks it's OK let her have him. Any ideas on why he blames me?

You're worried about him blaming you? That's your problem? You've got to be kidding! Honey, kick him out and get free of this. You are insane to stay with this.

Maybe go on Jerry Springer. Or Maury. Only they could help you.

Sounds like he is a gigolo....Kick him to the curb......You are better than that...Good luck and God Bless You!

of course he is going to twist reality so he doesn't look bad. That is very common, he'll blame everyone ,but himself. What a dick.