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Just yesterday I went to the doctor. They told me I was HIV Positive. He said I've had it for a couple months. How would I get in touch with all the girls I've had sex with in the past two months?

Well, I'd make a list of people.
And then you figure out their names, look them up and call.

If you don't remember, ask a pal or somebody.
"Hey, her hair was blonde and she was some 5'6 tall"--blah blah, you'll get ansers.

sorry for the news.
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Call them on the phone, go back to the places where you met them, send them emails, etc.

make a list and hit your address book orthe phone book if you dont have their numbers. cant get their numbers try to focus on a way you might be able to obtain it, mutual friends etc...

Doyou have their phone numbers I would call them and arrange to meet each one seperately and discuss your concern fo them. I htink you are doing a brave thing by owning up to your responsibilities.Also I would try to find the same method to find out who you caught it from if it was through intercourse.

Go thru all your old numbers, your cell phone, your email, your address book and be honest and responsible. Good luck to you, I will pray for you.

You should have their #, right?
I'm sorry to hear about your diagnosis. You cant change it now, but you do HAVE to find all the women that you have put at risk. I hope that you list for 2mo isn't that long!
You have to be more responsible now. Your life is not over, it just as to change A LOT! Best of luck to you.

wow, i commend you for wanting to do the right thing! I also have to say that i will be praying for you and your health

i would say check your phone bill, most of them have detailed calling, so you know what number you called, if not. try your cell phone bill, they ALWAYS have the numbers.

make sure you talk to any girl you dated, go to the place you found them, maybe they will be there looking for another guy.

My heart goes out to you but dont despair.Some people have lived with this terrible illness for years.I really hope your one of them.There must be an aids help line or a group that meets in your area.You should join it,I am sure it will help you,How to tell the girls not an easy one to answer,I would probably not want to tell them direct.I would send them all a letter and suggest they go to a V.D. clinic.Better not to mention your condition.They maybe all O.K.

Go to their place of residence and ask for them. I'm sorry for your news. I to recently found out I have an STD.

All talks with your partners should be in person.....and be blunt honest with helpful information for them......have your doctor set you up with an HIV/AIDS consular on how to approach, talk, and give info to your partners.................

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