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hello, to all.
i am gay boy and recently i was find my lover and he is from france. and we love each other so much and even he visit me to malaysian and we have the most great holiday.
and then he got ticket for me for visit paris and i when to paris and i have very nice day, suddently one day he told me that he cant lie me any more because he see me that i love him so deeply. he was HIV positive.
i dont what to do because i have sex with him many time but so far i am use condom with him but even he told me that he is HIV positive.................but i cant just leave him just like that because i love him so much and i am crazzy of him, every single minute i just think about him because that much i love him.
now days he try to avoid me and he say that i have great furure because i am medical student and he dont give problem for me and i can see that he try to go far from me and he told that he not love but litle love.
but i know he really love me so much and even i love so much

I know a really good friend who married a woman with HIV..they are contantly at their doctors office and always taking extra precautions so that he doesn't get infected. They have been happily married for 18 years and he is still testing negative. Of course they have no children but they seem to have a very fulfilling life together. Love is love. if you decide to stay with him talk to your doctor together to see what you can do to keep urself disease free. Because if it doesnt work the last thing u want to do is walk away from this relationship with a life threatening disease that could've been avoided. Also take into consideration that he didnt even tell u about his disease before he slept with u. Does he really love u back the way u love him or is he really just lookin out for his best interest and using reverse psychology on u by tellin you to stay away from him and go have a better future??

It seem that to love him more than you love yourself and your life. PLEASE DO THE RIGHT THING AND DO NOT EXPOSE YOUR SELF TO HIV/ AIDS.

He is right. you have a bright future and keep it that way. If he has pulled away from you you can;t make him love you. try to find someone else that will love you and not give you a death sentence.

so ur a medical student and ur still asking this question?
yes u litrary love him till death..becouse this is where it gonna lead ...to death
stop being crazy..he is gonna die from hiv and he is taking u with him

well, first he should have told you that he was HIV positive before you had sex. Hopefully you will be fine. I have a friend who married a guy who was HIV positive...and they are still married / together to this day. Good luck and stay healthy!

Get yourself tested and quite having sex with him with you are concerned about HIV. If you are prepared to get HIV, which will happen eventually, keep having sex with him.

I think you should try to see him and sit down with him and talk. Let him know how much you care for him and want to be with him. That you have no problems with his HIV. Maybe you could even go see a professional to talk to the both of you and work through the problems you both might have with the relationship..Good Luck

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