I just met someone but he has someone who is HIV Positive they have a child, but he &the child are negative.?

he claims he lost feelings for this someone because he was vulnarable when they met he has never felt loved only strain of having to take care of a sick someone all the time when they met she was sick already but he and the child were lukcy to survive she was maried before and had a child who was infected now he claims he needs love he has never had because he is always looking out for this person emotionally and financially should i give him a chance?

I'd might be friends...but no more...steer clear, he's spoken for....by his family.

No don't give him a chance...he's taking chances....wouldn't you be too?

I would be very careful with this one. I would start this one out as a friendship and build on it. Go at a very slow pace. If he sticks around you know he is there for the right reasons.

he seems like an insensitive jerk. If he couldn't handle helping someone out "in sickness" (get the vow reference?) then he certainly isn't marriage material. I can understand being drained from taking care of someone all the time, but does he think the girl LIKES having a death sentence, she needs someone to help make her last years on earth enjoyable, not a constant reminder of her sickness, and then this jerk leaves her because of her sickness. That's not kosher. Sure, give him a chance, just don't plan on getting sick!

it is entirely up to u sister if u feel u love the guy go for him but if u do give him a chance u should both go for an HIV test just to be on a safe side

Sure if you really care about him. BUT...don't have sex without taking every step you can to protect yourself.

I wasn't quite clear in your question, but if he had a child with someone who had HIV then that means they had un protected sex. HIV is not always detectible at early stages but it still can be transmitted.

I don't see why you can't be with someone just because they had an experience with someone with HIV. Also I put in a link about HIV testing.

This is all a bit confusing. If it's his child and she was sick before, wouldn't it mean that he must be H.I.V. positive also!?! I know that mothers can have children these days without passing the virus but sex with someone with H.I.V. with no protection (which you'd have to do to get pregnant) leads to having H.I.V. ... As we all know. People who have H.I.V. deserve and need love too. I strongly suggest the both of you being tested for H.I.V. and other s.t.d.'s before you get into a sexual relationship. Then from there you can see what and where you want to go in your relationship with him. Good luck and be safe!