I am an HIV positive male and I have to confess.....?

I had unprotected sex with another male and he performed oral sex on me. I feel terrible right now, is there any chance he didn't get it? I'm praying that he didn't. Should I tell him about it, I know his phone number?

Surely there has to be some chance that he didnt contract it, but call him be honest and as pissed off as hes going to be at least he can go get checked out ASAP

There's a chance he didn't contract the virus, but it's best if you talk to him.

You stupid ****** you suppose to it is the law.

dont kill your self i would tell him because if he doesnt know that he might have it then he could spread it to other unknowing people and if you ever need to talk message me [ :

of course! you have to tell him. If you know you gave some one the HIV virus, and you didn't tell him you had it. You could be in major trouble!

Tell him. There is always a chance that he didn't get it, but make sure he gets tested RIGHT AWAY. He's going to be pissed, but at least he'll know (and you won't be so guilty anymore).

HUN... TELL HIM... ITS BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY... PLUS THE EARLIER HE FINDS OUT THE EARLIER HE CAN GIT TESTED AND CURED... BUT FROM NOW ON... HUN... JUST STAY AWAY FROM ANY TYPE OF SEX... WELL GoOd LuCk!!!!!!!!!!

yes there is a good chance that he didn't get it, but with a life-threatening illness you should take no chances.

you have to tell him so he can get tested. As you know, it may not show up right away. He will have to get tested every few month for a year or more.

you have to tell him

you have to tell him


and you have to stop risking other people's lives.

Yes you should tell him. Its a crime to knowingly have unprotected sex knowing you are infected and not tell your partner. It is so crazy that people are still so free with their bodies...

You should defintily tell him. While the chances of him actualy getting the virus are fairly low, it is still a good possibility. Actualy telling him could be hard though, but it really is the right thing to do.

I would look into maybe seeing if there are any support groups, and or clinics or something like that in your area. They can probably give you tips on how to tell him, and or help you through the process.

The only thing I can tell you is good luck.

God made AIDS to kill fags dead, let God handle it, don't tell your friend

yes

oral sex is lower risk than regular sex, but there is a chance he contracted the virus so he need to know ASAP so he doesnt spread it further if he is infected.

i think the health department will contact him for you and just say "someone diagnosed with HIV says they had relations with you, you need to come get tested" if you arent willing to do it yourself. you really need to let him know though either through the state health department or by calling himself so in the event he is infected, he doesnt give it to someone else

You should contact him. There is a chance he didn't get it. I know a man who has AIDS, and his wife didn't get it, neither did any of his kids, and that was after 17 years with her before he found out he had it (he got it after about 5 years with her). So there is a chance, but it's always better to be safe than sorry. Contact him and let him know, and don't do that anymore unless it's with someone who already has it, 'cause then it doesn't really matter. Good luck, and I hope for the best with this one.

There is a chance that he didn't contract the virus. You most definately need to own up to your poor choice and call the guy. Yes, he is going to be mega-pissed. At best, your decision is going to cost him six months of inconvenience and worry. At worst, you have completely changed life as he knows it. Please do the right thing and give him a call. I am glad for one thing: you feel guilty. You should, but it shows that this is something you know you shouldn't do, and won't do again.

I hope this is just a random question and this did not really happen. You are suppose to tell anyone you have sex with being protected or unprotected that you are HIV +. You should contact him as soon as possible and you should contact someone for support or join a support group because you are in denial that you are ill and the seriousness of the disease. Good luck.

If from the oral sex he received bodily fluids into his mouth and consumed them, then you'd better let him know.

be very careful in this situation tell him immedialty and get on his good side, for if he contracts aids you have committed manslaughter if he dies. but nevertheless you need to tell him before he has unprotected sex with someone else because he doesn't know. why, you could make another date of it, take him to the clinic and coffee

Yeah, you should tell him. And yes there is a chance that he didn't get it but he really has to know so he can get checked out.


(as for 'The Rebel' - you are the reason we all hate fascist bigots! - But you know freedom of speech and all that - every one is entitled to their opinion - no matter how sad, shallow and twisted that opinion may be!)

I think that you want to tell him, that's why you posted this. Just tell him. Your viral count could be low enough not to pass it on. He deserves to know

I would put your feelings and preferences on hold and call him. It can take up to six months for an HIV test to test positive, and he needs to know so that he can avoid having unprotected sex in the meantime and possibily passing it on to others.

There is a possibility that he didn't catch it but you're playing Russian Roullette with someone else's life. If you don't tell him and present him the opportunity to protect future partners, you might have a great deal more to feel bad about than just him.

Well, he has a 99.9% chance he did get it because it was unprotected sex. You need to tell him, don't have him infecting others if he does have it! I will pray that he doesn't have it also. God Bless you!

Why and how does a known infected individual in clear conscience not use protection and tell there sexual partner to give them an informed choice! Don't just feel bad do the right thing!

The right thing to do is to call him right away.

Well honey I think that you should call him and tell him what happen......he deserves to know!...before he hangs up the phone tell him to get a HIV test
that's the only way to know
I really, really wish you the best of lucks!! and please don't do it again!

Big chance he did. It's also illegal to engage in any sexual act with anything knowing you are HIV positive.

Nice of you to you feel so terrible, after it's TOO DAMN LATE! How dare you, you pig, you b*st*rd!

GEE, on one of your last questions, you had full blown AIDS, now its HIV.... and then in another you were GAY, & had sex with a black man, & then a HOOKER, and then in another one you were a trans-sexual......

Sick JOKES.... not funny!

yes, please tell him please. I'm truly sorry that it happened to you. you can still live a fulfilled life with HIV. good luck

you where very selfish!!!!!! ya know if god wanted man with man he would not of made women for man. sick very sick

Consider how you would feel if someone did this to you. Tell him, and use a condom from now on.