Plz help, am so scared going for HIV test, I used condom, I want to have a baby?

Am 27years old, I feel it is the time to get married and live the family life. For the coming 2years, I should be married and at least have one kid.

But, I feel too much scared, I suppose it comes positive?? will all my dreams be shut down? will be able to have a baby if found positive??. What will be the reaction from my friends? family and other relatives?.Really these are the questions daily ringing in my head.

These questions acted as a break for me to go for a test. Should I mary before testing? how about the kid if found positive? how about its mom?.Just a bit cough make me feel,ooooooooh! the symptoms have already started!!!Lots and lots of questions burning my brain.

Please help me, where and how to start?, I HAVE NEVER SEXED WITHOUT A CONDOM

man dont be scared if you are sure you wasnt have a sex with some one have a possative vhi so you will be far away from it but i whant to tell you dont marre any one before you make your test and also the condoms will not protect you frome diseases kiss will a some like you made a sex without condoms!? and many think like that , but dont forget the humans self protection will better than use some stupid drugs.. ish you luk with your test...

what the heck are you talking about?

you should get the test done before you get married

Just go.. It will never hurt and if you are.. better to learn sooner then after you had a partner and everything..

Getting tested does not mean you are a bad person.. infact is a healthy life style choice. you are shwoing that you respect your body and others

SINCE u have NVr SExed WITHoUT COndOm u sHOuld be OKay..TRust me...go tesT..Be a Responsible gUY...

i think too much cocaine is your problem.

The best answer that I can give to you is to GO GET THE TEST! If it comes out negative and I suspect it will, then you will feel at ease and won't have to worry anymore. If its positive then you need to know it NOW so that you can have treatments because this can be effectively treated. Anyway, like I said before, I think you will be fine but you can't know until you are tested for sure! Stop stressing and get tested! Do it TODAY! Best of luck to you. J

While it can be nerve-wracking, you've said you always had safe sex. IF this includes oral sex, AND IF you never had a condom break, then you shouldn't have a problem with HIV (unless you've used IV drugs or something like that) This doesn't mean that you can't have other STD's though. condom's don't protect against everything. I would still go for the test. I wouldn't worry so much though, it sounds like you were being health conscious. While getting tested, maybe you should get tested for everything so that you'll feel better knowing you don't have any STD's.