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Pregnant with a cheating boyfriend!?


This is pretty horrible to think about, let alone write about. I am over 8 months pregnant and I found out yesterday that my boyfriend and the father of my child has been cheating on me. We've been having sex without condoms because I am pregnant and in a committed relationship so we didn't see the need. I have found out that he hasn't been using condoms and has had sex with at least two other girls. I found a video so I am sure of everything. My problem is that I have been tested for HIV and STDs and come up clean. But, when confronted he admitted that he had sex this past weekend with a complete stranger, unprotected. I'm worried that I may have contracted something. I know with HIV I can't test with secure results for 3 months. Am I putting my baby at risk with breast feeding? I can't stop worrying. I am going to ask my doctor on Monday but I am freaking out. I don't know what to do. Any advice would be amazing.

PS. We've broken up. So no worries there!

Don't freak out. Just wait and explain the whole situation to your doctor. It'll be okay. You might just need to wait on breast feeding or something like that. But don't take advice from anyone except a doctor on what to do. :)

HM... this is a very difficult situation. I think that yes if you do give the baby breast milk once he/she is born if you are infected with HIV you are placing the baby at risk.

this is exactly why you should marry if you want a kid. Irresponsible partners dont see themselves commited and they use that as an excuse to "play the field". However im not baggin on you, but why would u have sex while your pregnant. Also the only way to know for sure is if you ask your doctor. If it turns up positive i would see if the baby contracted it, if not, dont breast feed it, have someone else, if thats not an option, put he/she up for adoption. HIV Aids can prove extreeemly deady to a child. Hope everything works out for the best.

Great another good American girl having sex with her BOYFRIEND!!!! When in hell are all of you stupid girls going to wake up and quit being used by men!!!!

Whether you like it or not the truth is that if a man really loves you he will marry you as he wants no one else to ha

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