PLEASE help im a scared teen! please

im 14 and i fingered my gf and licked my finger to be funny (its not so funny ) but she was 12 or 13 and this was when i am legend came out but what are the odds that i can have hiv/aids please help and even if the odds are low how can i ask my mom to get tested? and also me and my friend were making a cake and then he told me he spit in the cake =[ and he has gotten a bj and ate a girl out what are the odds with that please help im super scared im never going to have sex until i get marred ! and i dont remember having symptoms and i know doing that stuff with my ex is bad and im sorry =[ but please i need help

Calm down! Working yourself up isn't going to make the situation better. There is a slim to NONE chance that you have contracted HIV/AIDS from what you desrcibed. And even if the girl that you did that to was HIV +, you would still have a slim to none chance. The HIV virus has been known to spread through saliva, but there has to be enough in it in order to infect you. And the probability that you got the piece of cake that had 5 gallons of spit in it is very very VERY unlikely. Please, just relax and calm down. You didn't contract HIV/AIDS and have a very slim chance of ever contracting it the way you described. I wouldn't even bother getting tested because it's going to be negative and you can save a couple hundred bucks. I hope I helped! And please calm down and quit worrying so much because you are fine and are HIV negative! :)

okay, take a deep breath. Your chances are really really low ... like 2 out of a million. I wouldn't freak out about asking your mom to take you to the doctor right away. Next time that you go to the doctor, tell him/her about this and ask if you should be tested for AIDS/HIV. really, I don't think you would get it ...

calm down first off!
you can go to your doctor and when your mom leaves room, which they often make parents do, tell your doctor.
With the cake thing, very unlikely
you cold have caught it from liking your fingers but i doubt it

First of all, what are you and your 12 year old girlfriend doing? I'm glad you're scared because you just learned that having sex is no joke and you need to be responsible about it.

What makes you think that your girlfriend has HIV? Has she had sex with anyone before you? Did she flat out tell you that she tested positive? Why are you thinking that you need to be tested?

If she does have HIV, there is a possibility that you are infected. You can go to Planned Parenthood and ask to be tested, although you may need to have your mom come with you.

Read up about the symtpoms of HIV and how it is passed from person to person. Arm yourself with information.

Good luck.