Had unprotected sex...I am freaking out?

Biggest regret of my life so far, I blacked out and got taken advantage of by a "friend" and many people I am close friends with are good friends with him. I have learned my lesson and will never drink that much again. Anyways...this happened 2 months ago. I had my period so I had a tampon in so THAT got shoved up inside me. About 36 hours later I got to a clinic and had it removed -- a couple days later I went to the gyno and got tested for STDs. It came back negative. I want to get the blood test done because I've been FREAKING OUT about other diseases like HIV and herpes. I freaked out to him more than a few times and he said he was in "perfect health"... Is it okay to get the blood test for HIV and herpes tomorrow? Because I have my annual appointment. I am showing no symptoms (that I know of) of herpes. I did infact have a bad yeast infection and a bad bacteria infection from the tampon. I've been a little itchy but nothing too severe after I took the pills (I was extremely itchy after the tampon was removed) What do I do? I can't stop freaking out and my mind is going crazy.... mainly because I itch a little bit sometimes.

Help me :-( Thanks so much

Honey that SUCKS. Some men are such pigs. No one should be taken advantage of, even if they blacked out, but I'm glad you learned the lesson that you must protect yourself.

Get the blood test tomorrow. At 2 months, the tests will be pretty reliable. You probably should be re-checked at 6 months, but once you get these results you should be confident they are accurate.

I'm sure all your issues were from the tampon. I hope this doesn't sound patronizing, but the itch is most likely psychological. You are thinking about those parts a lot so you are more aware of any little sensations down there.

Good luck!

This is rape! You need to report this. Keep getting tested up until 3 months. Sometimes it takes that long to show up in blood tests.

He should be arrested.

first of all PRESS CHARGES! Stop talking to these friends. You can get an HIV test if you want.