How can I get my fiancee to test for HIV?

I am engaged to a gorgeous girl and we are planning to get married next month. We did the pre marital tests a month ago and everything came out fine including HIV. The thing is, I want to get tested again for HIV before we get married just for easing my mind and fears but I dont know how I should tell her to do it. I am afraid whe would feel suspicious about it. What reason do I need to tell her to get her to test and give me the report?

first, you sit down somewhere quiet where you can talk to her. Tell her you love her and how much you appreciate her, tell her that you trust her and your happy to be with her. Then you can start by saying that you have concerns about both of you and your health, Tell her that you would like to get a physical examination that includes checking for std's and you would appreciate if she would do one for herself as well. Be honest and sweet, talk to her and i'm sure she will understand your concerns and fears. good luck to you both

if you have suspicions, yes, certainly.

you are being redicuous - she already was tested and came back clean - there is no logical reason to have another one.

If you have such irrational fears then maybe you aren't ready to be married and this is just an excuse to get out of it, or you have a deeper psychological issue that needs to be addressed.

If you just had a test?..You don't need another test, unless you or she have not been together...

Maybe you should re-think getting married, if you are asking questions like this?...Sounds like a trust issue, and personally?..I wouldn't want to be married to someone like you...or anyone, that asked this, and especailly after, just having the test done!....

well first you need to do yrs... and take her there with you... when you're done...tell her

"ohh honey :P while we're here, why dont you too get tested, its easy peasy anyways " ok?

The only reason shed be suspicious is she will think you had been retested because youre worried you have it. You better be honest with her before you marry her. Hiding things will only cause problems later. Dont get married with secrets or youre heading for disaster. Tell her the real reason you want her retested.

See dear if you are having fear of HIV or any other serious viruses there are many other way to discover the disease.But thinking about HIV my dear you cant come to know the way you are thinking right now.You have to be patient and think when was the last time you had a sexual contact with your partner or the person who you think had an HIV.
You have to wait at least nine months to find out only the HIV result because this virus does not spread very easily in the human blood but it cannot be controlled also.The symptoms of the virus are not shown for at least two years but someone can come to know about it if there is a regular checkup after every nine months.
See dear there is nothing to be afraid of there are many other signs in women from which you can come to know there is an infection or not.
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Tell her you ain't gonna marry here until you know shes clean.
Tell her its just you and you feel insecure about her and would like another test for peace of mind. Your just overly-compulsive and its really a good quality.

If the tests came back ok then you should probably just let it go. She will get suspicious, I would, and it could lead to her being deffensive because you think that she's being unfaithful since your last test. But if you must then try telling her that you know someone who got faulty tests from the same place you got your tests done and you better go somewhere else just in case. I know it's a little lie but it's either that or you just come out and say that you want one more just to be safe. If you think she'd be ok with that then definatly stick with the truth but I would get upset about it. Good Luck.

There is 2 ways I can think of to have your fiance's blood tested in a mutally helpful yet subtle way (without pressure).

1. As a regular blood donor, I have to answer questions that help the Blood Blank determine whether my blood is "clean" enough. A blood donor's blood is routinely tested for HIV, "mad cow disease", any contamination!
Invite her to join you in volunteering to donate blood ---you'll be saving others lives and maybe your own someday (if a blood infusion is necessary). If she agreed to do this, you will know by whether her dononation is rejected or accepted.

2. Have a thorough blood test for cholestrol, diabetes, ...and HIV as part of the next (annual) medical check-up usually around one's own birth month. Then it a case of "I show you mine and I 'd like you to show me yours" [that is check-up results!].

Have a lovely and loving life.

If you have to start making excuses now, before you are married, you are going to have problems. Just tell her that you want you both to do the tests again, just for your own peace of mind, that is a very good reason you know,.

What interests me is why are you so paranoid about this.
Is there something in your past, or here past, or blood transfusions or something, that makes you think there could be a possibility of HIV in the future. If there is anything, anything at all, you should be completely honest with her and tell her why you want another test.

You cannot live your life on a lie, if there is anything to tell.

The reason you give her is the truth, whatever it is. Do not start your marriage with a lie.

If the fact is that you are paranoid for no reason, then tell her that as well, and if she loves you she will go along with you and ease your mind won't she.