Should I get a HIV Test? PLEASE HELP ME!!!?

I'm 13 and I've been having sex with, belive it or not, my MALE cousin, i first had sex like one year ago, with him, and i've been doing it ever since. This year, i think i've had sex with him for atleast 8 times. So, I've been seeing on T.V. all of these commercials about HIV and AIDS and everything eles, but everytime one of those things pop up, i just change the channel, because i don't like to think that I could have an STD or HIV or AIDS. Well, I don't know if I should tell my parents because, well, 1) they will be shocked when they know i've lost my virginity at age 13, 2) that I'm bisexual, and 3) that Icould have HIV. What should I do??? Well, i don't want to stop having sex because it's a great feeling, and I can't buy condoms because my parents would find out! so, what do you guys suggest?

If your not using condoms, your going to suffer the consequences if you continue to have unprotected sex. Either stop having sex or you start using condoms.

It would be better if you tell your parents, now rather than later, especially if you contract a sexually transmitted disease.

Some STD's will take your life, or you could end up with a life long condition.

Think about your future, and what you want to achieve?

Why not talk to your local Youth centre, they may give you further information about the consequences of unprotected sex. They may also give some condoms.

As for having sex with your cousin, you need to seek help. I might add if he is older than you he could be charged for rape, have you thought of that.

DO HAVE A TEST AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

You don't think they'd be shocked to know that you're catchin' and pitchin' with your cousin? That's pretty sick and twisted man...

You need to get an HIV test... why? STD's, THAT'S WHAT YOU GET FOR SU CKING ANOTHER MAN'S D I C K AND SWALLOWING HIS LOAD!!!

That's quite the story. You shouldn't be having sex with your cousin. Get tested incase.

you can't contract an STD unless he has one.

So, ask him if he has one. and if you both don't have any, then its like you're operating in your own little safe bubble.

btw he's your cousin thats gross

First off I'd like to tell you that your sick. Not only are you gay, but your gay with your cousin. As far as getting an HIV test, you definately should. If you think you have AIDS, the test is free just ask your doctor.

OOOKKKAYYY, not being judgmental because what u do is what u do, but y your cousin? Anyways what would u rather, your parents catching u using condoms, or to find out that u got AIDS or an STD from ur cousin? I'm going to let u decide, either way they will probably find out just be careful.

A test would be a good idea. You might try to tell your parents that you are bi. They may have sensed things about you and this would give them an explanation. You will certainly want their cooperation if you are HIV. Best of luck to you!

You should get tested. Anal sex is accompanied by a higher chance of contracting HIV. It's safer to know!

first of all never hesitate to get tested for any std. there are ways around your parents finding out and if God forbid you do have one most testing places have councilors who can be a mediator for you and your parents. secondly you should not be having sex with your cousin...incest is against the law where I live maybe you should talk to a professional about why you haven't sought sex outside of your family.

You need to get tested and you also need to think about safe sex no matter who or what you are having sex with. HIV and AIDS is deadly and not something to be playing around with at age 13. It is time you start thinking with your head and not with your penis. If you don't start thinking with your head you will wind up catching a nasty disease that might kill you. You have your whole life ahead of you so start being smart. Stick to something like masturbation if you feel you must get some sexual relief or at least get a hold of some condoms.

I think you should get tested cause your having doubts and if you cant buy condoms maybe you should ask your partner to buy them for you is better to be safe. So go get tested you might not have anything and your just worrying for nothing.

GET THE TEST!!!!!! you could save yours and who knows how many other people just by taking that test! and tell your parents. you should let them know before they find out, or else it will be a whole lot worse. and after you go and tell your parents get condoms and use them until you take the test, and still use them afterwards. think about it, would you rather die of a blood disease, or get grounded for a long time?

Yes.

Stop having sex with your cousin. I know nothing about your cousin but neither technically do you.

Play it safe and just cover your bases. Protect yourself. Get condoms. Ask friends if necessary to get them for you.

Everyone likes sex...but be safe. And choose a partner that isn't your relative. This is emotionally unhealthy. Even if your find the sex " a great feeling"

Be smart.

Alright then, Medical doctor immediately, psychiatrist within the next minute or two. oh yes, and stay away from barn animals for the next few days

What is wrong with this world? I think this is really sick. Yea get yourself tested for aids and all the other diseases that are out there. then go and see a head doctor, because if I couldn't find anyone to sleep with that was my cousin then I would do without . Someone needs to tell your parents and cut his thing off.

Listen, if you have to ask the question, you need the test. Anyone who is sexually active should be tested. You never know when deception is in the works.

Please, I urge you to get the test. Please be safe!

Call a sex hot- line in your area. You can talk to a professional with out giving out your name. You probably don't have HIV unless your cousin has had allot of sex with other people. You can find a sex or gay hot-line in your phone book. What you are doing isn't that bad but I wouldn't tell your parents until you talk to the hot line.

Yes, I think it woudl make sense to get tested. You've only had one partner, it sounds like, so that is in your favor. The fewer partners you've had, the less your likelihood of getting a STD are. But its still possible. One thing you should probably do is ask your cousin if he knows his status, or if he's had any other partners.
If you are bisexual, then sooner or later you will have to tell your parents this. But since you're only 13, you're right...they might be quite shocked. Frankly, I think 13 is much too young to be having any type of sex at all (heterosexual or homosexual). 13 year olds are supposed to just be kids. Why dont you slow down a little bit and put off the sex for a few years.

If you really like this boy, there are other things you two can do together that are less risky, such as kissing, cuddling, and blowjobs (although blowjobs also carry a risk of transmitting STDs so be careful).

Also...another thing is that your cousin is probably not the best person to have sex with, as you are related.

You have a funny family mate!

why can't your cousin buy the condoms? if you're that worried, go for the test. who knows how many other people he's slept with already. if i were you... i'd get that test done as soon as i could just to be on the safe side. if you've got it... you're ****** anyway.

OK, well I could care less if you are bi or not, to each his own, but your cousin? WTF? If you are seriously having sex with your cousin, I think you need serious help, that is disturbing. Second of all if you are having unprotected sex then you should get tested for everything and stop.... it is not worth it. If you are not old enough or responsible enough to buy condoms you are not old enough to have sex. Get counseling, I think you need it.

Although I think 13 *is* a bit young to be having sex, you're doing the right thing by asking the questions.

Yes, you should get tested for HIV. If you're in the United States, call the county's Department of Health and ask them about HIV testing. They'll probably be very happy to help you. They can probably also provide you with free condoms.

Secondly, don't worry too much about having sex with your cousin. Two closely related males having sex is not, in any way, harmful. LOTS of males have done it and nothing "bad" has happened. It's just that family members spend a lot of time with each other in some intimate settings so this sort of thing is going to happen.

HOWEVER, if your cousin is over 18 then he *can* get in bad legal trouble. It's called "Statutory Rape" and, yes, it does apply to male-to-male relationships.

First off, tell your parents, call 911 and report that you have been fu@king a pervert cousin at age 13. That's sick

Back to the point.
If your pervert cousin is a street gay... yea... then get tested. He might be ******** 20 other jingolos (men whores) down in those honky-tonk whore houses. Get tested and for your own safety, stay away from unprotected sex.

Good luck and ***** off from a cousin.

Shame!

get tested!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

- and buy condoms or dont have sex at all - you are 2 young!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! go play a video game :)