Girls only!!!?

hey ladyz im a 14 year old girl living in the crazy 2008 wprld and every one around me iz secretly having sex & every one knows or ppl dontcare and put it out their and my friends an family strangers and maily boys are trying to pressure me but it gets harder and harder for me 2 stay close 2 god and keep my v-card ...i know how 2 keep it safe ive been 2 so many classes on hiv sex drugs & more plz tell me how to or what i should do....

o.k.you are a girl living in the year 2008, and you are a v-card carrying virgin thats so cool and so almost unheard of in this day and age. every fiber of my being says wait for your wedding day, but the best reason is the obvious reasons, may I begin here: HIV, ANY or EVERY KNOWN and UNKNOWN S.T.D. because there a few that are treatable but never curable, and can cause a great deal of pain and embarassment, both physically and mentally. how about the fact that most people that have some types of STD don't even know and could pass the disease on unknowingly, because there are no symptoms, how about the fact that those that do have the STD sometime won't tell their partner and pass on the nasty thing, how about unwanted pregnancy to young, how about having to tell the parents that trusted you, that you have had sexual relations and that you might be pregnant. YIKES! can you even possiblely imagine having to tell your loving trusting parents that bit of news. how hurt they would be?! facing life with another life that will be totally dependant on you and all the trouble you would have with the babies daddy not to mention the daddies parents. and last but, certainly not least the damage you do to your young body having sex to early in life is devastating to say the least. OH, yes, did I mention the names you get like easy girl, slut, whore, just to mention a few, and even though you would not be the first to do so or even the last the fact would still remain that you would be the victim of their having nothing better to do than start rumors of how bad you are now and well, I guess you get the fatal picture now don't you? as a retired medical person I have seen this happen to " I DIDN'T THINK IT COULD HAPPEN TO ME " girls and guys. that by the way is the famous last words before the big picture really settles in. babies really do depend on their parents for every single thing from food, clothing, and shelter, to love and nurturing from their moms and dads, your a GOOD GIRL now so DON'T BLOW IT kiddo keep up the good work and if the others want you to give in well to bad so sad you have a great thing going there.

Little lady if you care about yourself, in terms of your reputation (and don't be fool thinking people don't care, as soon as you do it you'll be called named you won't like) if you care about the consequences of sin, and how your sins hurts God, and you in the long run, you wouldn't do it. You are being seduced/lured by the pleasures of the world and if you give in to them you will have to suffer the consequences for it. This temptation you are having now, with its little pleasures, if done, will not be worth it, trust me.
Don't follow the crowd, stand up and dare to have self pride and dignity.

Lord knows it's hard as heck to get keep it, especially when you're being pressured into it, but you are just going to have to push hard. Pray A LOT because that's the best way to get through it. Keep your virginity sweetheart. Most girls taht I ask about sex regret ever having lost her's, so its worth it. There are so many diseases out there that having sex with someone that you dont fully know, love and trust is far to risky. Try hard, pray hard, and realize that trials struggles only make you stronger. If you wait until marriage, you'll have no regrets.

Stay strong and know that there are others who have the same beliefs as you. I am 28 years old and still haven't had sex and I'm not going to until my wedding day. I think the greatest gift you can give your future spouse is a pure and clean body. And God loves the chastity of women (and men).

i think that you should ignore them. My friends pressured me into smoking when i was 9! i didn't understand at first but my parents caught me and i was grounded for a month. I think that if you know it's wrong, don't do it. You should talk to the people pressuring you and tell them just how you feel. Even if you are the only one standing up for that perticular thing, god is always going to be there to back you up. If your friends ditch you for that disission, then thery weren't really your friends. I think you should look closer at them and see what they will look like in years to come. They will be all trashed and wasted when you are working a dream job living in a beautiful house.
I know it sounds stupid but one "little" mistake will make you want to make other little mistakes but eventually, they will grow bigger and bigger and soon, will catch up with you.

You have one life, don't screw it up!

ok, im a 18yr old, and im telling ya know,

Do not have sex yet.

many ppl trade in the "v-card" later in life and in high school, but when they are older. and i know many ppl who have had sex at ur age and are now addicted to sex. i would say wait a few yrs, and if ur friends are doing it, chances r they arn't and if so, then they are making a mistake, wait till you find sum1 u like/love and only do it if u know ur ready, dont let others force u into it.

and make sure the guy uses a "jimmy cap" (condom) if u do trade in ur v-card

hope this helps, stay safe =]]

My friends in school never pressured me to have sex because I knew so much about it from classes and talks that I would make up an older boyfriend and use my knowledge to tell friends fake details about what we did then they made fun of someone else. When they wanted to meet my boyfriend I would say he is in the military and always away during that time.

You know what is right. You know what is wrong. You can cchoose to have a healthy life style, or you can choose to make it wrong. Go with the right choose and tell all of them to back off. Someday you will thank yourself for it.

Goodluck, Amber

You are doing a great job sticking it out, even though it is soo stressful and hard. It is really tempting, but God is working through you to keep you on the right track. Continue to pray to Jesus that he will give you the strength to stand up to those people, and do what you know Jesus would do. God will be near you always., and He is enduring these troublesome times with you.

Don't worry-- He'll never leave your side..He will always be there helping you.

Best of luck, I am praying for you!

rreally go **** everbody it dont listen to those other ******* losers... take 1 for the team.. and go do every drug u can ..acid ,lsd,pot myth, weed, cocaine, uppers and downers.. injections, revlong, or just get drunk

keeping your v-card is really important! i am about to be 14 in 2 months and i know if i were to DO it then i wouldn't be able to live with myself! just remember this....don't do anything you wouldn't do if your mom was sitting right next to you! stay strong!

wow girl! that sucks.but i totally know wht u mean!! i seriously do.im in the same situation.but just keep at it. dont give in at all!!!! okay.be strong. u are a woman and u dont need sex,drugs or anything to keep u going besides urself!!!!! remember that! keep ur v-card as long as possible! if u need help message me. best_catcher_2@yahoo.com.=] okay

You can do it. It takes willpower to do the right thing. Just say, "No, not until I'm married. I owe it to my future husband."

keep yourself busy in school jobs such as babysitting etc. there is always volunteer work if nothing else the key is not to be iddle.

wait for when you think its the right time
dont let anyone walk all over you...to some people keeping the v-card is a fragile thing.

Don't let them pressure you, if somthing comes up, just walk away I guess? .. or Say back off. (:

ok. DONT FALL INTO PEER PRESSURE! and btw the ppl r probably lyin just because they think it makes them look... idk....

Lol, I bet 99.99% of those people who say they're having sex are LYING!!!

DON'T HAVE SEX!!!
WAIT!
It's not worth it, trust me!!

dnt do it!!!
please wait!!!

you should just wait

block it out.... im with you/...