Will I have to live with a person with advanced hiv, whom I do not love?

I'm from an orthodox brahmin family absolutely middle class. I've got married in 2001. Prior to marriage I've a failure love story. Have ignored it for the guy suspecting my character if I talk to other guys. After three months he drunk and bet me one day. I'm shocked. His parents were abroad and I'm no way in touch with them. Then later on I came to know that he's not even a graduate n I was smartly cheated. My parents are scared of society besides their financial problems. I've left him and sarted living separately. one day he fell on my feet and I was left with no other option to come back to him after an year.He turned very week but then too he force me for his sexual desires.I could not trace the matter why he's turned so week.One fine day I took him for a master check up then I came to know from the reports that he's HIV. I'm shocked. The doctor says there's no point in living with him together as I have not seen my life I'm 28. I dont even have children. What should I do?

I've checked my self as of now I'm negative. But still I've two month window period for confirmation.

U have got to leave him and get a checkup.HIV is one thing but the way he has treated U is not acceptable. PLEASE LEAVE!

well sweetie you did marry him and the vows state to be together in sickness and health and this would be in sickness, but you DO NOT have to have sex with him from this day forward, or you could just leave him altogether but the choice is yours. you dont have to stay with him. am sure he could find an agency that will send someone to care for him on the regular. GodBless

Hey gal u should get yourself tested becouse one yr with HIV cannot make one so weak soplease check yourself en if your are negative hey park yourthings en leave ,
iam sorry you were cheated but know hey u can change things yourself no one esle
be happy all time en if your positive you can live longer en also have kids who are negative

u were the one who posted the question to 'grandmom' column of deccan chronical news paper!!!!!!!...wow!r u from hyderabad?
hmm...i think u shd just b there till he wants u to b....i think he has got a punishment...just b there its u r responsibility...bout u r future...just check u r status and probably get married again.

Leave him immediately. Get yourself checked. He might have infected you also.

dump the guy who was never true to your relation since the beginning ...


dont turn emotional over this matter and accept him ..


be tough and leave him .. rightly said -- there is much more for you to see in this life ...

Have you got yourself checked?? Get it done!! Cause if you have had sex with him you too probably have it.

Startwith having yourself checked out for HIV

Take care of yourself first.

firstly get urself checked... its a good thing that u dont have children because at this point of time if u had children as well then it would have been very difficult for u to support them. i hope dat u r well educated.. go ahead with ur life. get a job.
u have been very sympathetic towards that guy and dats y u have landed in trouble. u dont deserve to live ur life with him.. u deserve much more... u never have to compromise and live with someone u dont like.. all the best!!