Persian Girl That Needs A Little Help From The BLACK BROTHAS!!!!!!!?

Am I Torturing My Boyfriend???????

i have a boyfriend but i am still a teenager and i don't want to have sex because i feel there are just too many risks (ex. pregnancy, HIV, AIDS)

about our relationship-------

he is Black and i am Iranian (Persian)

he has actually helped me quite alot because i have just moved to Jamaica Queens New York (the hood if you didn't kno) and he has helped me get comfortable there (have never lived in a hood before)

now whenever my boyfriend comes or i go out with him i have to admit that i tend to dress pretty sexy and be flirty with him

i just love the attention he gives me

also i lie on top of him alot and we makeout while he's touching my *** usually

but i was wondering am i making it harder (no pun attended lol) for him to go without sex or would it be more like a better than nothing sort of thing for him

also please keep in mind that we are still not adults and we are still horny teenagers

You are acting like a slut. You're a kid. Act like it. Why are you in a rush to grow up. You say your Persain? I bet your parents would flip out if they knew. Do you love him? Do you think you could? Your a teenager...you don't know what you want. This is going to spiral out of control fast if you don't tone it down.

wow ur mean and racist

Why don't you ask HIM how he feels about it. After all it is really about what he thinks isnt it?

yeah you're making it harder for him heh
uh you should really just draw the boundaries since what you're doing can easily lead to sex. you can still be affectionate without...well, without provoking certain expectations.

kudos, btw, on holding off for sex. probably one of the smartest decisions and you'll save yourself A LOT of trouble.

Shouldn't you ask him this question? If he cares for you at all, he will respect your wishes. That goes beyond color of skin.

Shame on you if your a muslim your comminting a big sin and if your father found out he would kill you are you crazy stay away from horney teenage boys they only want one thing and what will happen when you loose that one thing no one will marry you and you know that. Dont shame your family

Well, what you two are doing is fine. There are other things you can do besides the intercourse. You can still do oral sex and using the fingers and hands. Doing those can still help get you two off without the risk of pregnancy. Its good that you want to wait till your adults and that is great. But do other things besides intercourse and have fun.