Issues with dad and wedding, can you help?

Im 13, I live with my mum in spain and at my visit to dads house I stole 2 make up brushes from my dads girlfriend. they are getting married on the 21 of july, and i WAS invited but now im not alloud to come. Those where the only things i stole and dad now says i have been going into there room and stealing things for a long time, he probly just missed placed them. I have told my mum and she sayed that my older brother did the same thing when he was 13 (so did she AND dad). I have been HIV + since i was born and i have to stay at dads to change the tablets....I REALLY dont want to face dad or his girlfriend now but i have to go, mum doesnt have the money to come with me and stay with me when i go so i always go on my own. I dont know what to do, dads girlfriend does NOT like me anymore and i will have a hard time if i go there.
I dont like this feeling and dad takes a long time to forgive.
I have told all my friends that im going now what are they gonna think..my brother is going to.

Just don't go, if you bought the ticket already, just...cancel it? It is your choice, honey...your choice.

make self a good good girl

C'mon what you did was not real stealing!! We're talking about family here! If it's such a big deal for your dad and his gf, just buy 2 brand new make up brushes and bring them to her when you'll go there next time;)

Firstly - You Stole, so never do it again, take back the brushes and appologise. maybe a gift of flowers or something?

If your dads been a bit funny with you try to get along with him, he's your dad, he still loves you.

Just do your best to be nice to them and applogise. Your dad can never hate you and you just have to try to be nice. surely he will forgive you, it may just take some time.

You have broke their trust. You have to regain their trust and even though you mom did it and your dad did it and your brother did it does not make it right. Take the brushes back hand them to his GF and tell her you are sorry and explain why you did this and it sounds like to me that you do not have the money at home with Mom and Dad's GF does have more then you do at home. If they do not understand then you just have to attend and do not take anything ever again. Time will heal this!!!

Listen, just be the bigger person here and apologise to your dad and your Stepmum. I know that what you took wasn't much, but it's the principle. You actually stole something and that's not good. Just say you are sorry and that you want to clear the air and go to the wedding.

My stepmother doesn't speak to me (I did nothing wrong, she just hates me!!) and as a result my Dad isn't allowed to talk to me, he didn't come to my wedding, I also live abroad, and it hurt me like you couldn't imagine. Taking into account your illness, your Dad should meet you halfway here Honey life is just too short for silly falling outs.

It will take a lot of guts to face them, but you will honestly feel so much better afterwards, show them how grown up you are and apologise. I know how it is, it's too late for my Stepmother and I now as too much water has gone under the bridge, build your bridges before it's too late.

Good luck xx

Well I have to ask....why is it that you steal. Are you hoping to get caught? When you steal you lose people's trust. It takes a long time to build that trust back.
If you do go you need to tell them that you're very sorry for what you did and that you would like to have the chance to earn back their trust okay. You have to mean it though.
I hope it's a nice wedding and all goes well. Good luck.

honey....what you need to do is get a nice card and write to your dads girlfriend and apologise to her.....she will appreciate it and maybe she will forgive you...next thing is...DO NOT ever steal again because people will stop trusting you in their homes....that stuff belongs to them, not you and you had no right going into their room looking for things...let this be a valuable lesson to you hun...don't take things without asking...you'll get a reputation as a thief if word gets round and no one will trust you again.....just make sure that when you go see your dad that you hand his girlfriend that card in person...then tell her your sorry....also take the brushes back and give them to her.....then give her a hug and tell her you will never do it again....

you poor thing , you have been treated terrible.
you didnt deserve that,its not really stealing , everyone does that when there little .
you are his daughter and no matter what you should come first to your dad , whether he is getting married or not.

Just act as if nothing is wrong
Be sweet and kind and polite and make a card asking for their forgiveness and then just try and put it out of your mind
The more you bring it up the less likely they are to chnage their minds